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Blowjobs: Giving or Receiving

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Jared, Jul 29, 2013.

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Would you rather give or receive a blowjob?

  1. Give

    54 vote(s)
    32.5%

  2. Receive

    24 vote(s)
    14.5%

  3. Both are wonderful

    82 vote(s)
    49.4%

  4. I don't blowjobs, period

    6 vote(s)
    3.6%
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  1. Jared

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    Mostly interested in gay men's responses, but open to all :slight_smile: Would you rather give a blowjob or receive one? Up until I was sexually active I always thought I'd really enjoy giving them, but I actually don't that much and much rather receive one.
     
    #1 Jared, Jul 29, 2013
  2. TheEdend

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    Depends on my mood, but if I had to choose to do just one then I would probably choose to give.

    I find giving pleasure hella sexy.
     
    #2 TheEdend, Jul 29, 2013
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    I wish I knew. :redface:

    Also, it'll happen eventually. :grin:
     
    #3 Xochipilli, Jul 29, 2013
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    Ha I voted "Both are wonderful". And they are.

    Sometimes you just want to have a dick in your mouth, and give your partner pleasure...other times you just want to sit back and enjoy the pleasure yourself....
     
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    I don't enjoy getting them all that much. Would rather give.
     
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    would like to say both but don't know as I don't have any experience.
     
    #7 josh9623, Jul 29, 2013
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    So far, I have been the receiver mostly, due to being the less experienced one I think :slight_smile:
     
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    I've been the receiver and I liked it. The day after, I said I did not like it...but it was the denial speaking methnks.
     
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    I like doing both. I will admit, though, I give more than I get.
     
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    I voted both.
    But if I had to choose, I'd say I like to receive them.
    Giving a blowjob is like cooking food. Getting one is like eating it. While I do occasionally like to cook for other guys, A man's gotta eat!

    P.S. My favourite blowjobs are those that 'straight' men give you after seeing your six pack and drinking one
     
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    Straight Guys :confused: that would be rare Lol
    Nice concept though :thumbsup:
     
    #12 Dublin Boy, Jul 29, 2013
  13. drwinchester

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    Voted both. Not that I can recieve but a man can dream, right? :\
     
    #13 drwinchester, Jul 29, 2013
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    I've never given or received, but based on my fantasies, giving. I'd want both, but if I could only choose one, giving. It feels so good to know you're making someone you care about feel good.
     
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    Haha but isn't giving a blowjob more like eating, since you have something in your mouth? :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:


    Anyway, how about 69ing, then you and your partner can both give and receive at the same time? :grin:
     
    #15 Rakkaus, Jul 30, 2013
  16. TheEdend

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    For some reason I have never been able to truly enjoy 69ing. Its like I cant concentrate on either thing that is happening and my brain can only pick one of the two. Hot concept, though! lol
     
    #16 TheEdend, Jul 30, 2013
  17. Unsurevirgin

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    That's a first ,I never heard a guy say he didn't like bjs lol I never gave one lol
     
    #17 Unsurevirgin, Jul 30, 2013
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    I've only given once and it was awesome... I think I'd give more often but voted both cause I feel like it all comes down to what you're more in the mood for in the heat of the moment. Sometimes I get these super-hyper energetic moods where I'd wanna be all over my guy~ others I might be stressed or exhausted and rather chill out and enjoy while he does the work. In their own element they'd both be great. and yeah lets not forget about my favorite number either =D 69
     
    #18 kageshiro, Jul 30, 2013
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    Not that I'm sexually active or ever have been (or ever will be at this rate) but my fantasies involve both, so that's what I've voted for. :grin:
     
    #19 LinkLarkin, Jul 30, 2013
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    I would think that both would feel awesome. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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