Hands-Free Orgasm

I have heard of them

 

I get them all the time

Maybe a little to much info, but this is the sexual health threat section.

First of all, when you are having anal sex, your partner really needs to slow down. Foreplay is very important. It allows your body to open up and relax. And believe it or now, relaxing is an aquired thing, and it will take awhile for you to gain that level of sphincter and inner sphincter control. It helps alot also if your partner go's very slowly.

It is important to be in a position where your partner is directly hitting your prostate, and what you really have to do is concentrate. Focus on what is going on...down there... and really experience the sexual energy. As you do this over time, you will build up sensitivity, and you may not edjaculate, but you will have whole body orgasams regardless.

I hope I am not violating EC rules by being this descriptive, but I think it is in the best interest of sexual awareness and health to have healthy, and safe sex, so also please remember to wear a condom

Go get um

 

Holy typo's

 

Eep!

 

Haha shush!

 

I've never had anal sex, but I've had plenty of anal orgasms during masturbation, so they weren't exactly "hands free".

The trick is to stimulate the prostate, a gland between the bladder and the penis, around three inches in. Some men have trouble finding it, but with enough motivation and patience, you will, too. It's definitely not something you want to rush, and even the times I do reach the area, it takes a bit of "foreplay" to bring me to climax.

"Stabbed"... probably hitting the rectum. Feeling good would be a start, certainly. I didn't force it, enjoyed each experience, even if they fell short of expectations. It's not guaranteed every time, and pleasure varies, but generally.. you'll know when it's an orgasm. My first time actually involved several in rapid succession, without the annoying "refractory period" you get with penile orgasms. I would also describe it as a "full body experience".

 

Yes, speaking for myself, standard orgasms rarely move past the torso and the legs; the focus is usually on the lower body. With that one, at least, I remember it starting down there, but then slowly spreading elsewhere. Intense pleasure, and at some point, I remember not feeling *anything* at all; it was that powerful. The effects might have been enhanced since I was exhausted and in the middle of a hot shower, but I remember feeling I'd drift off to sleep right then and there, if it kept up.

It's not an everyday thing, and more of a "special occasion" treat. I have to be in a certain state of mind, have my bowels emptied, have total privacy and plenty of energy. Anatomically, men and women aren't too different, and our bodily responses to pleasure might provide evidence of this: a clitoris orgasm is usually described in a way penile orgasms are, and likewise with vaginal and prostate orgasms.

So if I had to compare, your standard male orgasm is something like "1, 2, 3.. GO!" while the prostate is more of a slow buildup of pleasure. I'm just continually surprised at how many people can go around having sex, knowing so little of their own mechanics and what makes them tick. It's definitely worth looking into, and I've even tried sharing with straight male friends, with little luck. Too bad, their loss.

 

Tyler's explanation was... awesome. LOL.

 

The first time anything ever went in those nether-regions I had one.
Holy shit. Amazing lmao.

 

Yeah what TyRawr said, be completely relaxed and really "Feel" the moment :lol:, I think its easier to achieve with a partner.

 

Do you have a dildo? Cause thats the best way to practice!

 

Now thAt sounds similar to the literal fangasms I've experienced. When I care a lot about something, usually a show. and a bunch of good stuff happens (which usually only happens in fanfic) I have an orgasm in my chest and have to stop for awhile.

 

Nope, not very convenient at the moment

 

You mean this is a thing? Like it actually happens? I had no clue that could happen with guys... I guess I just learnt something new today

 

Wow... you made it sound really goooooddddd lol... I haven't lost my virginity yet but if I do I will be thinking about this thread and comparing it LOL.

 

Yup, Tyler got it right. The emphasis is on relaxation and foreplay. Wish I had realized that the first time I tried, though. I shudder when I think about that.