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Is my penis big or small?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by person57, Aug 5, 2013.

  1. person57

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    When I measured my penis it was soft and it was 4 inches. How tall would it be if I was at full erection? Is my penis big or small?
     
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    Penises measured while flaccid are not a reliable indicator of the length when erect. Also, you're still growing, so the final length of your penis will be longer than it is now. As for whether you're big or small, it's too soon to tell because everyone grows at different times and rates. I wouldn't worry about this =)
     
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    Measure your penis again at full erection?

    I'm not psychic

    and I don't think size matters, it's how you use it
     
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    I've never had the chance too. Whenever I do get the chance my penis ends up being soft lol
     
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    If it makes you feel any better, humans are among the primates with the biggest penises, see? Isn't it great to be human? :slight_smile:
     
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    dude,you're 14. Your penis wil probably stop growing at 18 or even maybe 19. Relax. You can start wondering if it's small or big at at least 18-20.
     
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    Gay or straight, the length of a man's penis has no effect on sexual pleasure for the partner involved. Anyone who claims such are ignorant people who under go a case known as the placebo affect; meaning that if you think it, your body will react in a way very similar to what your body thought. Example; one time a patient who had to undergo a surgery and was given a pill to ease the pain, the patient put all of his trust into the doctors and the pill was as effective as morphine.

    This is actually proven by science and has many evidence around it believe it or not. Basically; they only feel a difference, because they want to.
     
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    Are you serious?
     
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    I'm really curious to see that research. Because tbh, I doubt that there's absolutely no truth to the idea that an increase in length = an increase in pleasure (at least for some, and to a threshold). I doubt that there's a whole market centered around that (sex toys, niche porn/most porn, etc.) if it's all just a "placebo effect".
     
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    Common sense. The prostate, the pleasure spot, is not hidden way deep. You can reach it with your fingers. If you can get an orgasm with your fingers, why would one need a huge dick for the same effect?

    Porn is not about to give the actors pleasure, but those who are watching....
    Looking at something impressive can give more arousal.

    Anyway, sex shouldn´t be only about penetration. If you just rely on a big dick I think that would make you a lousy lover.
    It´s way nicer for your partner if you get skilled with your hands and mouth/tongue...

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    What Boyfriend said.

    Relax and don't think about it. Don't compare yourself to others. You will need to click with your partner on many levels, this is just one thing out of many. And it is possible that if you were really well endowed, some partners would run away from you, because their preferences would be very different.
    Bigger is better just for some people.
    Relax :slight_smile: