So, I'm sure that this has been covered several hundred times before, but I've been browsing through the forums and I can't seem to find much in the way of tips and tricks on going down; at least not going down on girls anyway. I'm kind of a beginner when it comes to this stuff. I've gone down on my girlfriend several times and she enjoys it and whatnot, but I've always wondered if there's more I should be doing? I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm inherently clueless when it comes to this kind of stuff and any tips or methods anyone wants to offer would be greatly appreciated. Thanks, guys!
Well it's kind of hard to give tips in an all ages forums for this kind of thing. If your partner enjoys what you're doing though, then you're doing it right. Everything is about communication. Just try new things and pay attention to what she likes and doesn't like. Make her feel comfortable, like she could tell you anything, and just run with whatever she says even if it feels weird. And make sure you're opening up to her too. Little things like just holding hands go a long way.
That's true. To be honest, I didn't really think about the all ages thing. My bad. We always communicate and we're by no means struggling or anything, but I just figured it might be good to get insight from others if that was possible. Thank you for the good advice though!
"Come on, it's just like making love. Y'know... left, down, rotate sixty-two degrees, engage rotor..." - Bender What more could you need!
'Mature' subjects and 'explicit' content has never been an issue here provided it is for informative purposes and isn't just pornographic storytelling. Don't worry. No one is going to benefit from this forum if we arbitrarily censor ourselves and require ourselves to dance around subjects using euphemisms. Unfortunately I can't actually help you on this though (for obvious reasons ).
This advice applies to everyone. Making love is all about you and your partner feeling good, and enjoying the experience.
Yeah I really apologize for the impression I gave. I really feel like I killed the conversation and want to thank SayAnything for putting that post out there. The rule is usually no "war stories" or stuff you'd find in a romance novel or erotica online. "Pornographic storytelling" was a good way to put it. Which incidentally is the line I was worried about crossing; I can only really talk from personal experience here which makes it hard to keep it "health class" and not "bragging". So without going into details I'll just say that I highly recommend holding both of her hands, especially toward the end.
Use hands and mouth, switch off, or use both. It's about variety Different pressures and speeds. And when it seems like she is close, keep doing what you are doing at a steady pace until she finishes.
