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Whens the right age to start having sex

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by RawringTiger, Sep 14, 2013.

  1. RawringTiger

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    Im 17 now and i still haven't had sex i really want to i want to know at my age if its right for me to have sex my boyfriend wants to have sex so if ur think its right for 17 year olds to have sex i will have it with him he wants to for our 3 month anniversary
     
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    The first thing is that it needs to be SAFE sex.

    The rest is up to you.
     
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    Thanks for the reply i will make sure its safe sex :slight_smile:

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    can u answer these 2 questions aswell
    Whats better top or bottom?
    And
    Should i spit or swallow? (Sorry if its to dirty to answer)
     
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    I was 17 when I lost my v-card. My first time was awful, lol!

    Just take every precaution you can. But as for spitting or swallowing, just depends on your preference. Does your boyfriend have sexual experience? If so, sit down with him and have a talk first about what he's done and if you think he should be tested first; talk about what you two are expecting from sex, what you want to try, what you NEVER want to try, etc... All that is important so you both know your boundaries going into it, then the more you feel safe with each other, the more you can maybe stretch those boundaries..so to speak.. :]

    But you're 17. When I was your age I had no care for the talking, the boundaries, blah blah blah, I just wanted to cum. And if that's where your head is too, no harm done so long as you USE PROTECTION!
     
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    ill talk to him
     
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    As long as you use protection and know what to do, 17 is an okay age.
     
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    Here's the thing you need to think about: are YOU ready? It isn't about turning a certain age and it suddenly being okay. It's subjective, so if you're ready, be careful, but go for it. :slight_smile:
     
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    This. There's no one age, it's about when you are ready. I'm turning twenty in a week and I've never had sex, different times are right for different people.
     
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    How old is your boyfriend?
     
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    When you can say penis without sniggering.

    Nah, seriously. As long as you're ready to discuss sex with a partner, be respectful and mature about each other's needs and boundaries, and have safe consentual sex, think you're good to go, considering you're 17.
     
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    When you're ready :slight_smile:
     
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    17 aswell
     
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    Talked to him and ... NERVOUS AS FUDGE it's our 3 month anniversary so...
     
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    You are thinking too much! Great sex just happens and flows naturally like a gentle stream or raging rapid. It is up to you and him how it goes. First off keep it simple, and if you are nervous than get a bit tipsy first. Just enough to keep the jitters away. Be sure you have whatever is needed like lube and condoms or any extra props you deem necessary.

    My partner keeps it simple with just what god gave him and we have the best sex ever and I was terrified our first time for several reasons good to me, but they were all in my head! We have the greatest time every night, and I think it is because I love him so deeply. Your feelings are very important.

    I was 12 when I lost my V card and I had regular sex with him till I was 20 almost 21. We were the same age and I was with him and watched him develop into manhood. So 17 should be fine physically as far as your body goes. Good luck! June
     
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    Just had my first time with my bf he said it was the best he ever had (he had sex a few times b4) i'm just glad it went well and it was AMAZZIINNNGGG
     
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    I'm so glad everything went as planned. Good for you! :grin:
     
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    glad for you, especially since you enjoyed it. first times can make you so nervous that you end up worrying more than actually enjoying it. now you can enjoy it even more.