Gay men who have had sex with women

Have had it: yes. What was it like: like any sex, from eh to real good. Perform: yes, easier if attractive to me. Enjoy it: also from eh to real good. Positions: best: missionary, female dominant - worst: rear view (doggy style)

Honest: yes.

Go down: no. not my thing.

 

no - if a gay man did enjoy sex with women then they wouldn't be gay.

 

You've posted this opinion before. A man who has sex with a woman could be gay or bi. It would depend on the circumstances. They would be like a Kinsey 5.5, or lower numbers, so you're sort of right.

 

please... that kinsey scale is complete b.s. ur either 100 percent gay or you're not gay at all.. ur somewhere in the bisexual spectrum.. tightrope -you for perfect example are bisexual

 

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Come on, folks. LOL. I was just answering the OP's question without regard to categorization. Put me on whatever scale you want.

 

I had sex with women a few times during before I came out and it was always good, even if I don't consider myself bi or anything other than gay. Women can be very erotic (especially when you're 17 and drunk).

 

No one is 100% anything. Our desires are a complex interaction between biology and learned response and imaginative projection.

We can be traumatized into believing almost anything--that we are sexually attracted to women while, on another level, wishing them to be men, is one of those things.

Once I worked through... woke up to my deeper desire for men, returned to where I left off in adolescence, women no longer interested me sexually--at all. But I lived most of my life having sex with women.

Complexity is hard to get ones mind around. But simple declarations of This is This and That is That are simply not truthful--reality is way too strange and beautiful and complicated to fit into neatly labled boxes.

In answer to the question at the head of the thread. Yeah, I've done it all. And believed I liked it... though looking back, I don't understand how. I can't even imagine wanting to do those things now. But I did once.

And do not tell me that what I experience doesn't exist, that only you, Daisuke900, know everything there is to know on the subject of sexuality. That is extremely disrespectful and dismissive.

 

Well, no. My sexual experiences with women were always pleasurable, yes, but if given the opportunity I wouldn't repeat it.

 

I agree with this. A kinsey 6 gay couldn't possibly enjoy sex with a woman, even if romantically attracted to her.

I strongly disagree with this. I'm 100% gay, kinsey 6. The idea of sex with a woman is repulsive to me, every single part of a females body is physically revolting to me. I've actually gagged at the thought of sex with a woman before. On the other hand, I can list so many things I love about every male body part.

OP - I simple believe that if a gay man enjoys sex with a woman, he is not entirely gay. Even if he's sure he's gay, he'd be something lower than a 6 on the kinsey scale. I've made out with a couple girls before, and every single time I've felt it just wasn't right, almost like I was being violated, even though it was of course my choice. It just simply felt so wrong, I couldn't of been more turned off in my life.

 

Well because you are bisexual. being gay is only being 100% attracted to men if you have any desire for woen then ur bi-leaning towards men

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you enjoyed vag your bi

 

Disgust & revulsion are defenses against repressed desire, in gays just as they are in hetro men, where homophobia and disgust mask repressed homoerotic desire. If there were such as thing as 100% either way, the response to the other sex would be indifference, not disgust.

Clown fish, gobys, flatworms... many animals change sexes completely. There is nothing to make us suppose it would not be possible for individuals of our own species to change in the their primary orientation. Sexual procreation is an accident of evolution--as is everything else. Sexual preference, then, is not 'designed' for reproduction, but because it worked to continue those sets of genes, it was preserved... but not exclusively those that supported a disposition to couple with the opposite sex. Our sexuality, as I said, is a complex of biological and environmental conditions, different than, but no less than for flatworm or clown fish.

I live in a collective with, at last count, one trans man, one trans woman, one ungendered, two lesbians, two radical faeries, two straight men and two straight women--and all of us happy to dance on the roof under the moon and stars in drag... or naked as the day we were born.

I sure see no evidence close at had of fixed impermeable unchangable borders of sexual identity! (!)

 

you don't make sense old man

 

Ha! The last couple of years of my two attempts at marriage!

 

But I am 100% attracted to men. The fact that I had sex with a few women to pretend I was straight does not negate that.

Have you ever had sex with a woman? Vaginas feels good, end of discussion. They are warm and tight. You might not be attracted to them because of your sexual orientation but it's not impossible for a gay man to enjoy the act of penetration with a woman. I remember sometimes not being able to achieve an orgasm but after I started doing it more often and learning how to get my mind off the fact that I was having sex with a girl, I started to appreciate the act. Get drunk, close your eyes and enjoy the movement of their hips. Is it really such an absurd idea?

 

omg you are so bi!!! if you can enjoy sex with a women ur bi. period. Vaginas feel good to you're dick if your mind thinks it's good. Penetration shouldn't have felt good at all, yo you. vagina's are loose and wet. I'm soory but if you are gay then a vagina dhouldn't have made you cum.