Hi...I always fall for straight guys....And as obvious they don't reciprocate.... What should I do? Why straight people r insensitive towards emotions?
All I can say is keep meeting ppl until u meet the right guy for u? I fall for straight women all the time...it sucks but I try to b patient
Straight guys are great, and there's a hell of a lot more of them! Just try to keep in mind that if you're not going to earn him as a friend you don't deserve him as a boyfriend. Also, getting close to a guy is sometimes the only way to figure out if he swings that way :3 Sometimes he does!
It's understandable. There's nothing you can do. If they're straight, they wont be reciprocating, even if you're Ryan Gosling or Mario Lopez. ---------- Post added 2nd Oct 2013 at 10:00 AM ---------- That's what it is. Most of the guys out there are straight. If I'm downtown and I look around, there is all this eye candy in suits ... and with wedding bands. In some occasions, there are some who may be G/B. Of all the older guys in TV and movies I thought were attractive when I was a kid, one of them is reportedly gay. It doesn't change my opinion of how attractive he was one bit. http://tribune-files.imagefortress.com/attachment1s/1089187/medium_wm/ADH-217-MC_F.JPG?1294537266
Thank you all of u guys and gals for ur nice replies! And yes I'll definitely keep trying until I find the right and apt guy for me! Thank you!
Glad to know I'm not alone. I have a friend he's straight hang with him frequently doesn't know I'm bi but I have this huge crush on him. Would love to get physical with him but scared to approach him.:icon_sad:
I'm sorry dude, that blows, I know how it can be. Just hang in there - the right guy for you is out there somewhere!
When you get used to falling in love with heterosexuals, your emotions can become like a switch. One day, you will know everytime when to turn off that switch.
I'm majorly crushing on a guy who happens to be a jerk. When I'm away from him, I hate him. But then whenever I see him my heart melts... it sucks.
Yes LILuke,thank u so much dear for infusing positivity in me I'm also hopeful that one day I'll have my share of happiness.. ---------- Post added 5th Oct 2013 at 11:22 PM ---------- Winter....yes dear I need to adapt to that "switch" as early as possible...In fact,I am more mature now after having fallen prey to a couple of bitter experiences in the past.... Thank u Winter... ---------- Post added 5th Oct 2013 at 11:38 PM ---------- Swimmertriangle... dear u also need to acquire that "switch" that Winter mentioned about.... Coz straight guys are mostly insensitive towards same sex emotions! Try to know his opinion about homosexuals..and if u find it positive,then only come out to him..otherwise curb ur emotions and try to ignore him.... This is my suggestion
Unfortunately, I don't think we can really blame them for not having any interest whatsoever in reciprocating our feelings. I mean, if you're gay, think about how you would feel about a girl who had a crush on you [If you're Bisexual or in some other way attracted to girls as well then just pretend]. You wouldn't have any interest in her either. So it's not really fair to blame them for who they're attracted to, even if we'd prefer they were attracted to us.
