Oral sex tips

http://emptyclosets.com/forum/anonymous-discussions/115526-few-questions-about-blowjob-its-my-first-time.html

 

Men love it when you use your teeth!

 

I hope that was sarcasm.

 

Me too... :dry:

 

lol

 

Hello there, in regards to safe oral sex. I have received oral sex many times over the years from girls, but I've only ever given it once to a guy. Not because I don't want to, I just have only been with one guy. Anyway my point was, until I joined EC and read the forums it would never have occurred to me to wear a condom for oral sex. I've seen it mentioned on here a few times and I can see why that would be safe (and no mess to clean up) but I just have never considered using one. I suppose it's just something for you to consider between you and your partner.

To answer your question, there really isn't (in my opinion) many ways you can go wrong when giving oral sex. Personally, the number one thing would be to make sure your teeth don't scrape. I once received oral sex which I can only describe as being like a cheese grater on my genitals. It was not enjoyable.

Also try and make talking about sex an open and easy thing between you and your partner. You should feel comfortable talking about what you both like and don't like etc. That can help a lot, and also take any pressure off that you might be feeling. Don't over think it, try to imagine what you would like it to be like for you. I feel like I'm rambling now, anyway any questions just ask.

 

My answer to that lovely woman’s post was a work of both personal experience and what I’d like to avoid happening in the future.

 

lots of tongue. especially once he's in your mouth.

 

:lol: , I almost spilled my coffee when I read that.

 

Don't get too concerned and try to overthink it. You know what feels good to yourself. He'll probably like the same things. I'm a strong believer in communication. I like to be told what someone likes but that doesn't include using your partner's ears for a steering wheel. Some may be better than others but there's no such thing as a bad blow job.

 

First time I ever got a BJ, the guy tried exactly that. Felt like he almost bit it off.

 

A little rough play can be very erotic at times. Spread legs wide, bind ankles with a spreader bar and pull back to raise his butt so anus is easily accessible. Tie the spreader bar in that position. Now suck and mildly sink your teeth in and gently chew (DO NOT SCRAPE!). Get a firm grip on his scrotum and massage his testicles just hard enough. Use the other hand to manipulate a butt plug. See, you don't have to fear teeth.

 

I’m sorry, no offense to you personally, sir. But, there’s something odd in my mind about a 69 (Come on, even your age) year old man giving sex tips. It really shouldn’t bother me, but it does.

 

Why does it bother you? Does it bother you that old people have sex? Is experience of sex something that should have an expiration date?

 

Let me put it this way. I’d rather not think of the idea that older people have sex, because that would include the age group of my parents and I really don’t need to think about that. My age is a big factor in this. I obviously won’t feel the same when I’m in my 60’s.

 

Guys, please stay on topic.

 

How is that not on topic? Feelings about on-topic advice--because of a person's age. Age. Blow jobs. Feelings. ???

 

This thread is about oral sex tips. It's not about age as it relates to sex, and whether older people having sex is gross or not (And it isn't gross, in my opinion). I fail to see how discussing that issue is relevant to this topic at all, and how that's sensitive or open-minded to older people having sex. After all, none of us are getting younger. Again, let's stick on topic and leave any further discussion to another thread. If you would like to continue this discussion further, please leave it to PMs or to another thread entirely, but not here.

 

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Lol, but on topic *ahem*... using your tongue effectively can be quite effective as a means to an end.

Honestly, I don't mean to be crude, but porn is a wonderful tool for gaining insight and ideas for what you can do in bed. :>