I masturbate every night and when I started I did it the usual way. But recently, I feel the urge the orgasm sooner so I do the thing people do when they hold in pee (don't know what that's called) and I ejaculate much sooner than usual. Even if the first part feels good, I can't stop myself from doing that and cumming quicker. How can I stop doing this?
Stop and go. Just as you feel yourself starting to get close, take your hand off completely and wait a couple minutes. If you're cut and you use lube, try going dry. It takes longer dry but sometimes the end result feels better when all's said and done.
I agree with biwinning. Practice edging(getting close and stopping) when you masturbate. It can be great fun and provide a very intense/satisfying orgasm. Setting some time aside and really enjoying it can help as well. Try not to rush it or be in a hurry. If you live with people, the best time is to do it after they go to bed so you don't have to worry about interruptions.
There really isn't any better advice I can think of than to do that above- edging and doing the stop and go routine. As difficult as it may seem, just stop touching your penis when you feel yourself getting closer to orgasm. This is advice a lot of people give; there was a video I seen once on how to last longer, and this was what it was about. Of course it was a couple's video, so the other person stopped in it... I'm sure it works the same solo.
