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Tips for first time with another girl

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Seagypsy, Jan 26, 2014.

  1. Seagypsy

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    Hi can anyone tell me, should I bring a vibrator for my first time with another girl?

    It's not her first time, and she also sleeps with men, but I know some people advise not using one the first time..... What do u guys think?

    I use vibes on myself and would feel much better prepared if I brought one!
     
  2. wandergirl

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    no, i don't think so.
    i had my first time with a girl a couple weeks ago and we didn't use anything. once you are there she is the only thing you'll need. your mouth, hands and fingers should be enough to make her happy :grin:
    be gentle, kiss a lot, go slowly. enjoy every moment of it! :slight_smile:
     
  3. Thorrible

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    I don't think you should bring one. I have enough experience to tell you, you don't need a vibrator. It's about enjoying each other and each other's bodies. Personally, I think using fingers is far more pleasurable to begin with... Try exploring each other first. Take it easy and slow like Natalia said. Take your time. Try playing with your fingers. Find out where her spots are. To me no fake dick can replace my girlfriend's fingers. Have fun and enjoy!
     
  4. Bringing toys would be a bit much IMO. Just bring yourself.

    Also be safe. And have fun
     
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    Quoted for truth.

    Take time to explore each other first. There'll be time for toys later. :slight_smile:
     
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    And don't use your tongue too much because you'll only end up with a tired tongue try using fingers too like alternate and you can lick it in between fingering . even though i'm a virgin i know a few things:icon_wink
    I hope you girls enjoy yourselves
     
    #6 stocking, Jan 27, 2014
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