If two girls make love, are they still virgins?

Of course not lol.

 

Nope. lol

You're not. lol I've plenty of people who think that they still would be and that even gay men who've only done oral are still virgins.

 

Honestly, I think that the idea of virginity has a lot of misogynist connotations as it explicitly tends to fetishize a woman over her "having penetration with a man and his penis" as though that is a huge factor in determining her worth. Obviously, it's not, but historically that has been unfortunately true and it still pursues in some countries. :\

So anyway, maybe you wouldn't want to trash that word like I would so let's think of it this way....do you believe that if a woman has sex with a 1000 women that she is somehow a virgin? Is that really inexperienced when it comes to sex? I would say of course not. It's just that the definition was obviously not made for the sake of blessing homosexual relationships amongst other things, and this is why the term seems to not apply to lesbians effectively making sex between women "invisible". However, I would think that it's incredibly ignorant to assume that lesbians are virgins-for-life...because, if you have sex with a woman you are experienced. End of. I don't understand how that would be comparable or on the same level as some one who is actually inexperienced in any form of sexual contact.

So yes, I guess they aren't virgins...but then again, I'd toss that word if I were you...it obviously glorifies one form of sexual contact and throws the rest under the bus...

 

Hell No they aren't virgins .

 

You can even pop your cherry playing sports .

 

Hey original poster don't feel bad for asking the question lots of people have asked this question in the time I've been on EC it's much more common than you think.

Everyone's has their own opinion but as someone once out it in another thread if two people are doing things with the intention of working towards an orgasm them I would say they have lost their virginity but you can make up your own mind.

 

I use to wonder about the tampons and I use to ask my mom since we're putting it in our vagina doesn't that not make you a virgin anymore then she said only a man's penis can make you not a virgin .
Just plan ignorance if you ask me

 

Physically (hymen status) possibly, But most importantly, experientially....no. But then again, I ruptured my maidens' crown riding horses.

 

Just because a penis may not be involved doesn't mean lesbians don't have real sex.

Did you kiss and caress each other? Congratulations, you're not a virgin. Did one of you lick each other's vagina? Still not a virgin.

 

Your first sexual experience with another person is just as valid whether it's with the same sex or opposite sex. The whole hymen thing is ridiculous. By that definition I would've lost it to a horse or a minibike. And the act itself doesn't matter. I always thought it was amusing how a girl in HS who took a purity pledge was willing to give guys BJ's or let them do anal with her just so she could "save her virginity."