I've always used vibrators when I have the desire to orgasm. I have a slight problem though: no matter how hard I try I can't get off any other way. I've had two people that I've slept with try to get me off and both times I faked it because I just wanted it to be done. I felt that I was taking too long for them. It's gotten to the point where I'm scared to be on the receiving end and completely disappointing my partner. I fly solo a few times a week and have done a LOT of exploring with myself but still can't get there. I would like to be able to get of manually so I don't have to whip out a vibrator every time. Any tips?
