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Is it possible to feel pleasure or achieve orgasm only by anal stimulation?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by marcos220000, Feb 19, 2014.

  1. marcos220000

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    Hello,

    I've wanted to ask this question to other people for some time.

    It's been a while since I last had anal sex, almost a year now, which is when I broke up with my boyfriend.

    I remember that when he penetrated me, it was always necessary for me to stimulate my penis with my hands in order to feel pleasure. I didn't feel much if I didn't touch myself, which was kind of disappointing.

    However, I've seen bottoms in porn videos not touching themselves while being penetrated.

    So I'd like to ask you guys, from your experience: Can you enjoy anal sex and even reach orgasm without stimulating your penis simultaneously?

    Thanks.
     
  2. ornoir29

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    Umm. I'll tell you about me: let's say I'm a 90% top. I could happily live a relationship without ever bottoming, I'm a very simple man with a G spot in my penis. Nevertheless, I'm now in a relationship with a man who is versatile, and as much as he enjoys bottoming, he likes to top every now and then. I let him, mostly to give him pleasure, and I must admit that the (mental) feeling of him orgasming inside me is very powerful and nice. From a physical point of view, I don't dislike it and it doesn't hurt (unless he goes very deep), but the pleasure is mainly due to his penis hitting my prostate. That is a very strong stimulation, and when I orgasm (always by touching myself) it's more powerful than usual.

    I've never orgasmed without touching myself, though, whereas my ex did quite often.
     
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    Yes, I've done it...
     
  4. Claudette

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    The thing with Anal pleasure(atleast in Men) is the prostrate, when having anal sex (or toying your bum) it can put pressure on and massage the prostrate. no matter who you are this will give you an extreme amount of pleasure(which is why some hetero men will have a wife/gf put a finger up there during intercourse) while I have not personally climaxed from anal play, it does feel very good
     
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    The key is hitting the prostate right. It hasn't happened to me, but apparently it's a very good feeling.
     
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    It is about a process of transfer. At first it is 100% male up front-Hebrew word Mal; then well this feels nice. Then 50-50 Bi then 90-10 Ho hum yawn up front take it or leave it and feelings coming on strong from rear portions. Well that is how I've found it
     
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    Yep, hit the prostate right and it's pretty awesome :wink:. I've done it before.
     
  8. CharlieHK

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    Don't have a prostate but I've climaxed from anal masturbation...took a while...wasn't the best orgasm either. Keep in mind porn is acting. So the botttoms you see there may not be having all the much fun as they seem to be.
     
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    ya depends its different from guy to guy but i dont finde i have to touch my self o feel anything
     
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    I have a butt plug and I have stronger orgasms when I use it and masturbate normally, but I'm convinced the prostate orgasm is a myth.
     
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    The prostate orgasm is no myth. You need to be in tune with your body. I have tried using an aneros and have had several prostate orgasms from it. It feels phenomenal.

    It is really about if you want to experience it or not. I love exploring pleasure in all aspects with my body (no narcotics though).
     
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    I have to ask this question because it's often overlooked do to the way these things sync up, but you mean an orgasm and not ejaculation right? They aren't the same thing.

    I'm pretty sure it's possible. It may be difficult, but it can most likey happen. You'd be surprised at what you can enjoy if you "accquire the taste" as it were, and I think that's part of it. Orgasm through only anal stimulation has to be worked towards, and that's why most people never find themselves reaching it. They try it once or twice, don't experience much pleasure from it, and then are done with it for the most part. Of course, I haven't reached that point, but I have learned to enjoy things I didn't intially. Probably very similar if not the same thing.

    As CharlieHK mentioned though, porn is made for entertainment and often does not accurately portray most sex. So take what you see whith a grain of salt.
     
  13. marcos220000

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    I'm curious now...

    Is it possible to reach your own prostate with your fingers? I've tried to masturbate anally with my finger. It feels awesome, but only if I stimulate my penis as well. So I think maybe it's because I don't reach my prostate and I'm not really touching it...

    Has anyone reached an orgasm with anal masturbation alone?
     
  14. Stridenttube

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    I tired anal stuff once. Some of the worst pain I've ever felt in my life!!! How anyone could ever get pleasure from it is beyond me. So I'd say it's pretty rare to be able to do that.
     
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    I'm sorry it hurt and that you didn't like it... :frowning2:

    Anyway, as to the rest of the anal lovers here, most of the time, I actually don't try to orgasm when I'm doing anal masturbation. Generally, I just like to sit on my dildo for a long time (longest I've gone is three hours) feel the stretch and get a low intensity feeling of pleasure... Of course, if I go in and out at any reasonable pace with it, the orgasm will take me over in short order. Most of the time I don't do that though, because I like to get a lower intensity pleasure over a longer time...

    I am wondering though, are people's bodies just set up differently so they don't enjoy anal penetration at all, or are the people who had bad experiences with it doing it wrong? I guess I just think it's a mentality thing and a practice thing, but I suppose it's also possible that some people's bodies just don't work with that kind of stimulation...
     
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  16. Claudette

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    I started with experimentation... not that long ago... idk I guess it was from the hormones, because when I was a guy the thought never crossed my mind.
    started out small to ease into it, right now though.. I have a butt-plug of sorts... lol
    using that gives me a lot of pleasure
     
  17. Stridenttube

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    I would think some people just aren't meant to have anal, it's certainly not a mentality thing for me. I was trying my best not to yell and cuss, it was like being pinched and kicked from the inside. I had to lay on my belly afterwards because I couldn't sit down or lay on my back.
     
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    I had the same with my ex, which is why I tried a couple times and never again. With my current bf it just feels amazing, and his endowment is double my ex. So, I guess it's a matter of connecting with the other person, and maybe some skill on the top part...

    And mind you, I will always prefer to be on top. But with the right person and the right frame of mind, it can feel good.
     
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    I def get different orgasms from anal sex than vaginal O's!
     
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    For those experimenting with it, go small and go slow. If you stick a large dildo up there, it will be painful and you will never want to do it again. If you just have no desire to do it, then that's awesome too, because there are lots of bottoms out there who like 100% tops.