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Masturbation problem...help

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Isaac, Apr 2, 2007.

  1. Isaac

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    I'm 17 right now and i have a bit of a problem that i don't really understand. I know that some guys can masturbate a lot in one day while others can't. When i was younger i used to hate masturbating becasue i wasn't sure who i was thinking about becasue i thought i might be attracted to boys. My first look at porn was what i foudn from my brotehr but evenutally i just wanted to see the guys! Around 13 i realized i was attracted to guys (i didn't know was gay was at that time), but i knew i liked guys and not girls. After that i was able to masturbate. But heres my problem.

    I usually masturbate about 3-4 times a week usually infornt of the full size mirror in my room. It's not nailed down so i can move it around a lot. I have just recently bought a bottle of baby oil so that helps to. I also used to be afraid of my sperm. After i ejaculated on my jest / it would be on my hand; i hated the feeling of it and quickly got it off and didn't really rub it in. My problem is masturbating for the second time.

    Some days i'll be really horny and once i ejaculate the first time i want to do it again but when i do, a clear liquid comes out. I wasn't sure if it was piss or what it was but i can never do it for a second time no matter how i try. I know that it sin't pee, it sin't sperm and it really spoils my fun. Pleasse respond soon so i can hear your advice of what's going on!
     
  2. JayHew

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    Nathan, nothing more is going on than you are making the pump work and it has an empty tank to pull from. In the normal world, you might find the occasional guy who can cum in a fair quantity a couple of times, but most on a quick turnaround and cumming again will not produce much but the liquid that is produced in the urethra (pre-cum).

    Most of the ejaculate comes from the prostate gland and once emptied during orgasm, there may be a bit more to little more there to do a quick repeat. In a couple of hours all could be different, but unlikely you will produce as much cum as if you went a few days without an orgasm.

    There is no harm done if this situation happens either. It may not be as enjoyable either as it does take a bit of time for recovery. This is normally in the range of 20-40 minutes for a male, depending on age and conditioning.

    Overall, nothing to be worried about, just give the ol bode a chance to recover, it is not as quick as your largest sexual organ, your brain.
     
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    Nathan mate it sounds all the norm to me. im 16 and masturbate mostly once or twice a day, as soon as i go to bed and when i wake up which is probably too much? When i play around with a couple of my mates we might masturbate 3 times in the night. I ljust love edging which ive been told can cause blueballs so i dont do that as much now.
     
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    I completely agrree with you about this. Since if we masturbate to much, the amount of sperm wont come out as much as we expect. Well, different people have different condition and stamina. But Nathan, taht dodnt mean ur not healthy at all. It just that the way u masturbate and the time.
    As I see, wen I j/o and make the climax come fast, i wont get much cum, but wen i do it like an hour, I recive a better anount, becuz I'm making myself hornier and hornier, and I'm exercising my engine.
    I used to hate my sperm too, especially the smell of it, and I hated masturbation. But since I grew, and my body changed, my nerve system also changed. And I'm sure you're still growing, Nathan.
    I also think about is there any knid of foods taht can make us have more sperm, like meat and healthy food, but I'm so clueless. But I dont worry about the amount of my sperm. So u dont have to worry, too, becuz our sperm never dry out, dosent matter how much you use it.
    And for the feeling after u masturbate, to advoice of bad feelings, try do do something fun to distract urself, like music, movie, game, etc...while ur waiting for the 2nd time!