I'm sorry if this is a little uncomfortable to read, but I'm concerned. I have always thought my penis was really small, but I don't watch porn, so I really didn't have any way of comparison. Well yesterday, me and my boyfriend...umm...did some things. But his was HUGE compared to mine, and he has always talked about his being small. Fully extended, mine might be 3.5 inches. When it's not, its hard to see. Is this normal, or signs of a serious health issue? I've never talked to anyone about it, so I don't know if I should be worried. I hate my penis because it's so small, and I already have self esteem issues.
I'd say to just speak to your boyfriend about it, did he make an issue of your penis? if he's doesn't think it's a bad size or 2 small then i'd say that's all that matters
It is most likely not a health issue, there's just variation in size. 3.5 should be enough to use it effectively
Size really doesn't matter. I can even say best experience I had with a guy who has small size. (Okay checked converter to get cm, yeah his size was similar to you if not smaller. In the name of making you more confident, he was the top in our relationship if you get what I mean) I know some guys make size a problem but for me as long as you can make your partner feel wanted, loved and hot size is just a detail.
3.5" is a bit on the smaller side of "average" (which is about 4.75), but it's plenty big enough to make someone happy. You may run into the occasional "size queen" who is only interested in guys with enormous dicks... but anyone who places such a strong emphasis on one issue are probably not the healthiest people to be with in the first place. Our society has put so much emphasis on penis size and it's honestly just stupid. There are so many other factors that make for a healthy relationship that penis size really shouldn't be a factor.
Don't let a ^supersize me^ society get you down. Bigger penis does not mean bigger pleasure. Explore the benefits of small penis size.
OP, you're fine just as you are. I'm small myself, intersex actually, and I am barely an inch when erect - no bigger than a dainty person's little finger around for girth. Society and genetics can be downright cruel, but do not let size rule your life. In the end, it's all about yourself as a person.
