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does size matters?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Bolt35, Apr 9, 2014.

  1. Bolt35

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    i've always wondered what are guys opinion on penis size? does anyone feel self conscious about theirs? is there a way to actually improve it or not? I'M NOT ASKING WHAT YOUR SIZE IS!
     
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    I would think because both of you had penises the other wouldn't care about size . :confused:
     
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    eii sometimes they do. i've had encounters with guys where they felt the penis size they imagined, didn't add up at all. rather they just completely get turned off all together.
     
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    Size doesn't matter, in my opinion.
    I'm not self-conscious about my size, mostly because my bf is pretty satisfied with it, and I am too.

    In a relationship, I think penis size is just kind of extra. What matters more is if the guy is nice/respectful/caring. If they have a nice sized dick, awesome there's bonus points.
    But if they don't, hell, I don't care haha.

    I've never really looked into the 'size improvement' side of things. As far as I know, no.
     
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    wow size does matter for you men . I know I'm a big boob woman but still I wouldn't be like i'm not gonna date a woman because her boobs are small
     
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    I'm a total virgin when it comes to guys, but my sense is that as nice as the really big ones are to look at, I might have a harder time actually handling one.
     
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    I feel self conscious about my size. Though I hope it wouldn't be a problem when I get into a relationship.
     
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    I think it would depend on the guy. Some guys do, others don't, and even straight women can be shallow for the same reasons. I think It's more so how you use it.
     
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    I think every guy has wished they were bigger. A huge dick leads to more confidence, more to play with, bragging rights, etc. But then many are still satisfied with what they do have.

    That's kind of where I am. Totally happy with what I do have--I'm at the high end of average--but of course I wouldn't hate being bigger :wink:

    As for my partner, I prefer that he be in my neighborhood. My boyfriend is just a tad bigger and thicker than me, plus I usually bottom when we have sex, and I feel like he has me at maximum capacity; I wouldn't want him to be any bigger.

    I feel like "size queens" prefer monster cocks because they're fun to look at, but as far as practicality, I wouldn't want some enormous dick trying to get in me. Eesh lol. And anyway, you can have a huge dick and still be terrible in bed if you don't know how to use it.
     
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    This will probably be a refreshing take on things for you:
    I'm fairly well off when it comes to size/width however sometime struggle to get my boyf to cum without a "helping hand". Also at the beginning of the relationship we were both virgins so it took longer for him to get used to it. Ultimately it is how you use it and experience will improve that regardless of size. However I'm speaking as a top not a bottom.
     
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    Size is relative. I guess it depends on the size of the hand or hole it's going into (!)

    I think you will always get people with a complex about this. I believe there are supposed to be methods to manipulate the size of you penis, but I don't know much about their effectiveness.

    Personally, I don't think you should have to. No one should ever ask you to change your body for them. That being said though, if someone feels the need to, then that's up to them.

    I personally am not self conscious about mine and if some one made a bad comment I'd club them to death with it :dead:

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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    Why would it matter? Everyone is slightly different. Its compatibility that counts. Of course there's the peer pressure and the competitiveness that is exploited in the world of porn. But really? If you and your bf or gf can't have fun because of a size mismatch then and only then is it an issue. And its noboy's fault just a problem demanding some exploration to find a solution. Maybe its the hole that's too tight/loose.
     
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    haha i feel the same way, but i know for a fact that as long as you got one in between, it's going to be pretty damn okay.

    thanks guys for the response! i mean i've seen guys that talk about penis size sometimes and they REALLY get into it and talk about having the bigger size is the better, which makes me a bit self conscious. i'm glad that people don't always seem to think that way. it is definitely a struggle for every guy that has a problem with it and just wind up being happy with it.
    i guess how you use it really matters!
     
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    Yes, big is a visual turn on. But in the bedroom? Whole 'nother ball (npi) of wax.

    I have yet to personally experience another guy's penis. (Only been with women so far.) At least in my mind I can imagine being OK with anything between micro-sized and battering ram.
     
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    Absolutely size matters! Big boobs are squishy and wonderfully comfortable, but small boobs are nice and easy to grab. I'm pretty sure smaller boobs are more sensitive too, though I have no basis for that assumption. :wink: Jk, I know what you meant, and I'll bow out now because I have no real place in this convo!. :grin: Peace out dudes!
     
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    haha i've always wondered with females. i'm glad women answered this as well. seems like it goes the same way, though i never really think that women would have an issue with boobs because they like boobs anyways right? but i guess i was wrong just a bit.
    yea i've experienced a big one, and i tell ya, there's a damn limit haha, unless they can take it really well. it seems pretty physical
     
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    Admittedly I can be really shallow with breast size myself, even though I like to give everyone a chance. I think it's the same with people and penis size, to where it depends.
     
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    I like big boobs but I don't demand that my girlfriend has big boobs . I guess size matters to some lesbians too but I've met many that are happy with either small or big and a lot that prefer small
     
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    that seems pretty interesting. does it always seem like it might be a bit too much to handle if you guys were ever to get intimate or no? i find it funny or thought provoking that women don't really demand as much as men do when it comes to size.
    well with guys, it can get quite uncomfortable to a certain extent. we already have enough pain as it is.(yea i'm talking about bottoming and guys say that it doesn't hurt when you do it "the right way")
     
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    I've never met a woman that demanded most of they like the opposite of what they were they had big boobs they like smaller , if they had smaller boobs they like bigger . but there were some that liked big boobs and they had big boobs .
    It really depends one the person .
    I'm confused what you mean by it being too much to handle when getting intimate :confused: