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Scissoring?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by echlolie, Apr 10, 2014.

  1. echlolie

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    My girlfriend suggested to me the other day that we try scissoring. Now to me it seems kind of pointless, but she said her friend told her that it's really good and so she said we should try. I agreed but I'm a bit worried it will be bad or just plain awkward. I feel like oral will be much better! I make her cum every time I go down on her so I'm anxious that scissoring will be a disappointment :icon_sad:
    Does anyone have any advice on how I can make it good or simply your thoughts on it? If you have experience with scissoring, what do you think? Good/Bad?
    I hope this is appropriate for the topic :eusa_eh:
     
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    Is anything perfect on the first attempt? Not usually. Practice (and patience) makes perfect. If it's not all you thought it would be you can at least laugh together and if you're game, give it another go some other time.
     
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    I would love to try scissoring but I think oral is easier
     
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    If you're both comfortable with each other you should try it, you have nothing to lose..
    And who knows you might end up loving it!:eusa_danc
     
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    I've never done it but it looks like you need to be pretty flexible so maybe do some warm-up stretches like you would for exercise first. Also remember scissoring is not the only position for tribadism you can do it in missionary and other positions as well if you think that will be more comfortable and/or intimate.
     
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    I would try missionary my back isn't good as it use to be anymore so I prefer to be the bottom I don't want to be saying while doing it "Ah my back ! ":dead: takes the fun out of it you know .
     
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    I dont know what ots like because im biology a boy >.< But all i can imagine is what if you kick eachother in the face?? .-.
     
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    ^^ this ^^

    Haha! That's great.
     
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    I know I've had back problems most of my life, sitting up is hard enough! Which is why I was glad when I discovered you could do it missionary as well.
     
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    Ah thanks so much for all the replies! I guess we'll just give it a go and see :lol:
    Thanks again, keep posting if you have something to add ^o^
     
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    Thank God for missionary
     
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    I'd like to know how it went! I've been thinking about doing it also
     
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    First of all if you aren't comfortable with the thought of it don't do it. If you would do it but you aren't sure that is a different story. Just always remember to do what you are comfortable with and don't let anyone pressure you!
     
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    Don't make expectations when trying something completely new sexually, it puts pressure on both to reach a specific goal. Best wishes!
     
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    I have done it with my former same sex partner, and I agree with the above, particularly about missionary. It's awkward at first, and takes a little practice to get things right. A little stimulation with hands or oral first helps.
     
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    I actually feel like trying this now :slight_smile:
     
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    I have tried a few different positions and missionary tends to be my favorite. It is nice to be able to really be face to face. It takes a little bit of patience to get lined up correctly, but once you do it is amazing. Also getting to the correct alignment can be fun and hot with plenty of making out and grinding against one another. Try not to worry too much! Just relax and do what feels natural.
     
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    As somebody who has no idea how lesbian sex works, I just sort of pictured two naked women cutting each other's hair. I think I need help
     
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    What ! :confused:
     
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    I laughed.