Hey guys! I need ur help, i started a relationship with a hot brazilian guy , we didn't have sex yet cuz I'm virgin and i wanna wait a little :eusa_doh: but we talk about sex a lot and sext way too much , and he told me to finger my butt cuz it's pleasing, i tried to do it but i didn't know how to enjoy it, i usually masturbate without penetration , and i wanna try this! So , any tips to get started
I haven't done anything with a guy but i have tried fingering a couple of times. i recommend doing it in the shower with liquid body wash since its easy to clean off. i tried with lotion once and felt like i had to shower afterwards. it feels good if you get the right spot.
Go slow and use actual lube or Vaseline. Be easy on yourself. If you don't enjoy it, then stop. It's great when its done right.
i havent done anything with a guy, yet. But i will pass the advise i was given, lots of lube, go slow, lots of lube, if it hurts stop, communicate with your partner, lots of lube, work up to a penis slowly, and gently, unless he is huge if you can be comfortable with 2 fingers in you, you should be ok, just remember it's your body getting penetrated so your incharge and you will need time, and lots of lube. don't go too big to fast. good luck(*hug*) BTW toys are great for pratice if they're designed for it.
Any suggestions on how to get a toy if i'm not old enough to buy one? i obviously can't ask the mum. well i could, but i won't.