Hey all, this is my first real post in this forum so bear with me Basically, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. When we first met, he was strictly top and I was versatile but more than happy to bottom for him. He has now begun to loosen up to the idea of bottoming for me, but he's extremely nervous about it. When I had my first time, it was atrocious. I don't want it to be like that for him, so I wondered if anyone can give me some tips on how to make sure that his first time is as enjoyable as it is every time for me? I should note here that I'm bigger than he is, so the way that he usually gets me ready and so on wouldn't be enough for him. Plus I've only ever topped with guys in the past who were used to bottoming - never with a first timer. Hope you can offer some advice
