Lots of questions on MAsterbation Hello everyone I am a lesbian who gets a lot of sexual urges out of the blue. I recently started masterbating, but I'm confused on a lot of things. My questions: 1. How does a woman effectively masterbate? 2. What are some of the best techniques to use? 3. What sex toys are recommended? 4. I have a very strong sex drive and get stimulated from nothing, not even people. Would it necessary to masturbate multiple times in a day to handle this? (I'm not even in a relationship) 5. Where is the best place to do it? 6. How do I hide it from my parents? 7. I am a lesbian, would a viberator be effective for reaching an orgasm? 8. How do I do this safely? 9. How much is too much? Thanks
Re: Lots of questions on MAsterbation I'd recommend starting off with a bullet if you're gonna use toys. My first toy was a bullet with interchangeable heads for different sensations. It's very important not to penetrate if you're using interchangeable parts. Mine was cheap and kept losing the heads for no reason, and only one stayed on. As for techniques, it's good to explore your stuff and see what feels good. The inner lips and the back near the perineum are often neglected, but can add that much to a solo session. Another tip is to think of something. Have some fantasy or picture some sexy woman in your head. It should make it easier to climax. Safetywise, just keep clean and avoid using unsafe objects. If you get dry, use lube to keep from getting all raw. That will hurt like hell.
Here's my question: Would it be okay if I do it multiple times in a day due to a strong sex drive? I do not get stimulated by people or lustful thoughts, I just… do. I don't do it because I am bored or to pass time, its to deal with random urges. It just happens from out of nowhere. Maybe God created me with a very strong sex drive and I have to find a way to deal with it? Another question. What do you think about sex toys? I am considering them for helping me deal with my Titanic sex drive I was given by the Good Lord himself. I would only use them for current stimulations, not to arouse myself. Just to relieve myself of the reoccurring stimulations. I don't do it from lust or anything. Is that considered okay? Thanks P.S. I am a female.
I think everything is considered okay to please yourself (not just sexually) as long as you don't hurt others. But i don't know what your particular belief system says about it. I you are concerned about the Deity you believe in not being okay with it maby talk to someone in your church, i guess? Ikd i am not a theist of any sort.
Personally I don't feel there is anything wrong with multiple times a day, just as long as it does not become a negative addiction type thing. Sexual activity (masturbation or with a partner) is also known to relieve stress and for women, it can help with those nasty monthly cramps (much easier, of course, if you have 'internal protection' if you know what I mean). As for the toys, I have used them myself. Nothing wrong with a little extra help There is not really a technique that works for all around everyone. Every person is different and gets aroused by different things. You have to play around and figure out what works best for you. For myself, I get the most stimulation around the clitoris. For another woman, it may be needing something inside, or the g spot. It just depends on what works for you. So explore and don't be shy. It's your body and it will let you know what feels good.
Everyone's different so you have to try and find out what works best for you. You may get some inspiration here> http://emptyclosets.com/forum/anony...lth/85312-female-masturbation-techniques.html Just bear in mind that penetration could break your hymen so if you still have it you may experience some amount of pain and/or bleeding for the first time. It's up to you whether you decide to penetrate or not, clitoral masturbation itself should be enough to make you climax. Yes, vibrator should be effective for reaching an orgasm but every person is different. I bought myself one last year but don't like it much. Even though it is a relatively silent model the sound of vibrations kills the mood for me and I can't truly relax. Plus every girl should learn her own anatomy, including what makes her feel pleasure, and the best way how to explore it is with your fingers, I believe. When using sex toys don't forget to wash them properly. The best place for masturbation is somewhere when you have your privacy, you don't want to be walked in, so make sure that you won't be disturbed by anyone. Have fun
I masturbate when i feel horny i watch lesbian porn but each to their own i haven't used toys as yet but yea enjoy
Thanks again y'all. I broke my hymen long ago, so I could bleed without problems. I have a very high sex drive from a Clitorus that has hyper activity, I have urges around 30 times a day. And I don't get it from anything, its like "HI THERE!" How do I handle this at school? This gets SUPER distracting sometimes.
