Masturbation at school

I don't think it's a very good idea to do that sort of thing at school, try stopping yourself everytime you are aroused and think of something else to distract you from the stimulation.

 

Go to the toilet or something do in private I have the urge a lot too but I try wait till I'm home

 

Yeah if I were you I'd use the toilet. Just be sure you lock the door and don't make much noise. If it helps, try explaining you being gone with I don't know... a constipation problem

 

Yea i would lock the door too forgot to mention lol

 

I personally would either go to the bathroom, or wait until you get home. It's hard to control urges at a young age, but not impossible. Masturbating actually increases your sex drive. It only satisfies an urge for a short amount of time, but it'll keep coming back the more you do it, and I don't think that's a good habit to get into during school hours. The less you do it, the less you'll crave sex (In my experience anyway).

Now there's nothing wrong with masturbation, but it needs to be done in an appropriate setting.

 

Ever consider that it might be BECAUSE you thought it was wrong for so long that it's so prolific now?

After all, you spent so long thinking that is was a bad thing and now you realise that it ISN'T you sort of play catch-up in your head...

 

I don't mean to be harsh but you're not a child; learn to control it. If it's that big of a deal, find someone who isn't a virgin and wants to have sex with you, and just get it over with.

And no, masturbating at school is not appropriate. Focus on your studies; the term is almost over.

 

I sympathize, but I still don't agree with the idea of doing it at school; It just seems inappropriate to me and I wouldn't want it to become a habit. I get urges randomly as well, but I'm not going to start doing it if I'm at a relative's house I barely visit or if I'm out at a walk with my friends. I wait until I get home and when I have more time to relax.
Especially if you're female-bodied; in order to really enjoy masturbation, you need plenty of foreplay before you can touch yourself. Quickies don't really work with women sadly.

 

If you use a toilet stall, you might want to check at a moment when you are level headed (i.e. not desperate to masturbate) to make sure it has the privacy you need. The obvious area is the stall door. But there can be other weaknesses.

One bathroom locally has tiles that are reflective, and a pretty big gap between the stall wall and restroom wall. One day, I popped in to pee. I headed for a urinal, unzipped, and attempted to complete business as usual. And out of the corner of my eye, I saw a massive erection with a hand wrapped around it... There is free wi-fi at this place; perhaps someone had been taking advantage of that, and seen one too many naughty web sites.

Another issue to think about: even with doing everything right, you may worry about someone knowing what you are doing. I tried masturbating in a toilet stall once in high school. It was ideally done. The stalls had doors (most, if not all other boys' rooms had no doors on the stalls). The bathroom was empty when I went in. I chose the furthest stall. I stayed quiet. And yet, just as I finished up, another guy entered. As I left, passing him, I worried if he'd figured out what I was doing. (It would be ironic if he'd come in to do the same exact thing, and worried as I walked out maybe he knows why I'm in here.)

 

OK, forgive me for answering this topic with less-than perfect knowledgeability. But there's this device, can't for the life of me remember what's it's called, but some women with super-high sex drives have been known to wear it. It looks something like a badminton bird (no kidding) and it goes partway up the vagina. Supposed to be great for quick stimulation. A friend told me about a friend of hers who's a waitress. She wears this thing while she waits tables and supposedly gets off dozens of times every night.

Anyone know the apparatus I'm talking about??? I know I'm not making this up!

Anyway, thought it might be something discreet you could wear at school and get the release you need, BaptistLesbian.

 

Lol this is not remotely a good idea.

 

Someone was right. Just find someone you dig and woo them, and just get your's. Unless you waiting for marriage, just find a friend to "play with". Totally natural. Especially in school and by any chance of other Catholic student, we all have urges. That was my problem growing up in high school, realized I just needed to gets it.

 

It's not battery-powered, it operates on your own motion. It's more like a plug of sorts that's built to rub the sensitive areas of the vagina. Ugh, wish I could remember the name of this thing. Sorry, I'm not really being of much help.