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Horny but I dont want sex...

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by MommaFrog, May 13, 2014.

  1. MommaFrog

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    So lately I have been very horny, but when my partner initiates sex, I dont want it. I would rather self-pleasure.... is that normal? I've always had a high sex drive... I feel like something is wrong but I cant put my finger on it...:help:
     
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    I'm just posting because the awkwardness is funny.

    Ask her to do it for you?

    Have her sit behind you and guide her hands to where you want them.

    Oh and, hey Liz~
     
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    Masturbate!!! Masturbate!!! Masturbate!!! That's what u need no it's not weird u need your alone time its normal it's who u r it's nature now finger away have fun :slight_smile:
     
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    Nah, it sounds kind of like me. It would only be a problem when it starts to upset your partner.
     
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    Is your partner doing something that you don't do when you pleasure yourself? Or is it the whole idea of another person being involved at all that you don't want?

    If it's the former, you can ask that they not do the thing(s) you don't like.