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wearing condoms during oral(first time)

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by vkw69, May 15, 2014.

  1. vkw69

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    Nobody wants to catch std,But might be a turn off if you ask someone who you've just met to wear a condom during oral. Or could i just spot check for warts,etc then go without condoms.What to do...
     
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    Better safe than sorry is what I always say.
     
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    Always use a condom
     
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    I'm going to be unpopular now...
    If you're worried about STD/STI, then use a condom yes, but don't sacrifice your enjoyment if you don't have to.

    As far as I know, the main thing that you can catch from oral is herpies. Which is treatable and generally goes away with very rare (if any) reoccurrences.

    I think it's more important to be a bit picky/choosy with who's mouth you put it in.

    If you slap around town and have lots of anonymous, no strings attached, right now, casual, gr**d*r sex (oral or other) then you probably will catch something.
    If you've had time to develop trust and maybe love for a person and you know their backstory, then you're generally pretty safe I reckon.

    By the way, definitely always use a condom when having anal sex - unless you've both been for a blood test together.

    That's my 2 cents.

    Peace be with you.
     
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    Thanks for the good words guys,Guess all will depend on the situation.I Dont really sleep around too much (but would like too:slight_smile: but think ill stick with the condoms for now:slight_smile:
     
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    Good for you. You can still get HIV/AIDS from oral sex as well as other STD's so you have made the rght choice to use a condom.
     
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    Yeah it's a good thing to do that you can get stuff even from oral
     
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    Yes, use a condom.

    My fiance and I both have reasons to worry about STIs--he is a doctor and has had a few dirty needle sticks, and I used to do drugs and have unprotected sex. Both of us have tested clean (and I am more than ten years clear from the drugs and such) but we ALWAYS use protection.
     
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    It basically comes down to your comfort level. I PERSONALLY have never used condoms with oral, but if a guy wanted me to wear one (or wanted to wear one) while we did oral, I'd have no problem with that.

    Lex