Nobody wants to catch std,But might be a turn off if you ask someone who you've just met to wear a condom during oral. Or could i just spot check for warts,etc then go without condoms.What to do...
I'm going to be unpopular now... If you're worried about STD/STI, then use a condom yes, but don't sacrifice your enjoyment if you don't have to. As far as I know, the main thing that you can catch from oral is herpies. Which is treatable and generally goes away with very rare (if any) reoccurrences. I think it's more important to be a bit picky/choosy with who's mouth you put it in. If you slap around town and have lots of anonymous, no strings attached, right now, casual, gr**d*r sex (oral or other) then you probably will catch something. If you've had time to develop trust and maybe love for a person and you know their backstory, then you're generally pretty safe I reckon. By the way, definitely always use a condom when having anal sex - unless you've both been for a blood test together. That's my 2 cents. Peace be with you.
Thanks for the good words guys,Guess all will depend on the situation.I Dont really sleep around too much (but would like too but think ill stick with the condoms for now
Good for you. You can still get HIV/AIDS from oral sex as well as other STD's so you have made the rght choice to use a condom.
Yes, use a condom. My fiance and I both have reasons to worry about STIs--he is a doctor and has had a few dirty needle sticks, and I used to do drugs and have unprotected sex. Both of us have tested clean (and I am more than ten years clear from the drugs and such) but we ALWAYS use protection.
It basically comes down to your comfort level. I PERSONALLY have never used condoms with oral, but if a guy wanted me to wear one (or wanted to wear one) while we did oral, I'd have no problem with that. Lex