Now I have used a dildo now and then but there is something I'm wondering is a dildo more flexible and can hit spots and even reach spots you want it to reach , than a penis does a penis just go like one way and cannot hit spots a dildo can when it comes to a woman's vagina ?
Well...yeah...in some ways...depends on the dildo and the penis in question... The big difference is if you bend a dildo nobody complains, if you bend a penis you're gonna get headbutted xD
It really depends on the dildo, the penis and the partner's brain. Large part of the effect you mention is that you guide the dildo yourself, so you have better knowledge and feedback than any penis-equipped (or dildo-equipped) partner, unless you've been very close and very open with each other for a long time.
Dildos are safer for a start and they normally larger and you can get a vibrating one I think I'm buying one for myself now.
Yeah plenty, I mean they aren't silent, but you know, they are more than quiet enough. They aren't SUPER powerful or anything but they get the job done.
It all depends on angle and how you're using it. And how the dildo is made. And the natural shape of the penis. Basically, you can shop for the perfect dildo but it's awkward as hell shopping for the perfect penis. That's mainly trial and error.