This boy has been in my french class for 4 years and, oh boy, you should hear him speak french. It's about the sexiest thing ever. We have always been friends and sometimes he tells me he loves me really randomly and I know it's just a friendly thing because he does it to another person I know and it isn't a secret or anything I don't really care. He is absolutely amazing at french, is completely fluent and soaks up the language like a sponge. It's really amazing. He's also funny and nice and good looking. Not too long ago, he said to me "[insertnamehere] you look really beautiful." I responded with"I'm weating sweatpants" "so?" "My hairs falling out out of a bun" "[insertnamehere] none of that matters" This was weird because he's never said anything like that to anyone else that I know of. We had a huge test coming up and I genuinely needed help so who better to ask? He came over after school one day and we started kissing. He pulled my body against his and it was getting pretty physical. We went to my room and he started touching me everywhere and we were grinding up against each other. We ended up fucking. It was amazing and he even said a few choice french words it was so much better than I could have expected. It was also my very first time. He made me feel so special and since then we have been texting and I got an A on that test. He doesn't know that I'm bisexual and I don't know if I should tell him or not. Does it even matter if I do? It's a straight relationship so now I don't feel the need to tell anyone. It was also very spur of the moment so we didn't use protection and I'm not too worried, but I am a little concerned. I'm only 16, so what precautions should I take? Thanks!!!
So as a guy who just had a hook-up, erm, last night, I'll see what I can do. Anyway, mine was with another gay guy so I guess the mechanics were similar. But it was amazing. I'm betting you're still basking in that afterglow, eh? Anyway, does your guy need to know you're bisexual? If it's gonna be a continuing relationship, yeah. He got to know you biblically. But if it's a one-time hookup, he probably doesn't need to know. And yes- please, in the future use protection. You're FAAB so there's always that risk of pregnancy, especially if he ejaculated in you. But pulling out isn't a sure protection. You want to make sure you stay as safe as possible whenever possible so condoms are something to consider. And if you plan on being sexually active, birth control also not a bad idea. There's a lot of risk with sex, even though it's amazing and fun, so you just want to be secure as possible. Get tested regularly for STIs, if only for a piece of mind. (in fact, I gotta do that).
First, congrats on losing the v-card (I think?). I hope he wasn't moving to fast for you or anything. As stated above, if you plan on being in a longer relationship, it should be known just so you guys can start out on a healthy state. By the sounds of it, he seems like a genuine, nice guy and I don't see any problems in your future. When I tell people I kind of throw it into conversation like "you know I'm gay, right?" <--- that's actually how I met my boyfriend. With people that I am meeting or are just friends getting to know each other, I try not to make a big deal out of it. I'm going to assume you are the same age. If not- look up your states consent laws (will be either 18 or 16 in US). USE PROTECTION. I for care what he says, use it. The last thing you want right now is a baby to take care of.
