How do you stop yourself drinking? Is there something you can do? Smokers have nicotine gum amongst other things. What do alcoholics have? It destroyed my father, and the fool doesn't even realize it. He's drinking 1 litre whiskey bottles now. And he's such a little shit now with all his drinking I'm not even sure why I want to help him. He sucks the life out of everything and everyone in the vicinity, as long as they're not people he's in business with, of course he would never risk his relationship with those:rolle:
My wife has been sober for 11 years. There is nothing you can do, the Alcoholic has to want to change. It is not your fault, you do not influence their drinking, either. You sound like you could benefit from some Alanon meetings. These are people who have alcoholics int heir lives and they support each other.