My boyfriend doesn't have a problem with this, but I wonder if it's weird. Am I the only one who feels this way? I've never been interested in topping anyone, ever. Even when I first started masturbating(spelling?). I started fingering myself at like 12 or 13 and I never enjoyed getting off without it. I could, but it felt kind of boring, you know? Like, would you rather have the ice cream in the bowl or with the AWESOME waffle cone with sprinkles and cool stuff? Either way you get ice cream, but we both know which way the ice cream will be better. I'm not good at this kind of public stuff. Sorry.
No, It's not weird as long as your boyfriend understands. Never do something you don't want to do just because you feel like you should. I would never want to 'bottom' ever, and the right person won't change my mind. So just be you!
no theres nothing wrong with that, some guys like to top, some like to bottom it only matters if you feel comfortable do it or not
Nah, man, it's all a matter of preference. You don't dom and that's fine. I could do either but subbing appeals to me more and that's fine. Joe Schmoe down the street can't get hard without Elvis playing or his custom order Bad Dragon 10' luminescent silicon dragon dong and that's fine. It's good of your bf not to be bothered and respecting what you want, since your preferences 9/10 times aren't changeable short of something traumatic happening. Do what makes you feel best.
I think the greater majority of gay men are versatile, but even then, some will have a preference for one role or another. It's certainly not unusual to find men who will only bottom or top though. If you are happy to bottom all the time and your boyfriend/partner is happy to top for you, perfect. Only becomes a problem if your partner has an unmet need for bottoming.
I personally feel the same way, but I'd top if my partner really wanted me to. But I could never just be a top.
I would hate the idea of being a top. As I've told one of my friends, even though I want to have a penis I'm hardly gonna do anything with it.
I'm the opposite, I don't think I could ever bottom. It has nothing to do with ego, I promise. However, with the right guy, whom I was comfortable with, I might consider it if it was something he really wanted. Relationships require compromise once in a while, and that's okay. Never do something you are adamant about, of course. But it's a good idea to keep an open mind when circumstances might change
I consider myself a switch, but my idea of topping is probably using fingers, toys, tongue more than half the time. That, and I like to mix and match roles: power bottom, passive top. To answer your question, no, it isn't so strange. There are plenty of exclusive bottoms, and plenty of exclusive tops. Just make sure your partner knows ahead of time, or else you'll be be less than satisfied.
Nope. People have their preferences; and no one should try and make you do something tha t you're not interested in. I do think that by and large, more gay men are bottoms than tops. I'm an exclusive top myself and no one has ever had a problem with that.
