No matter how turned on I am, I just can't reach orgasm with a partner! It's incredibly distressing and it makes me self-conscious. I worry that I'm taking too long and I then feel anxious about how long I'm taking and if I'm going to orgasm or not. I usually just end up faking it. I've tried a bunch of techniques and none of them seem to work. I can orgasm fine during masturbation, but when someone else touches me I can't. What's wrong with me?