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is there anyone here affected with ocd or bdd?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Despitelove, Jun 28, 2014.

  1. Despitelove

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    Being isolated and bullied all my life because of my sexual orientation and my skinny body, I think I have developed an anxiety disturbe called ''bdd''. I have obsessive thoughts so I think it's similiar to ocd (obsessive compulsive disorder).

    Is there anybody who can tell me I'm not the only one loser who, not only is a homosexual, but has to deal with mental illnesses?

    Often I cry withouth a reason. That's what makes me think I'm getting depressed :/
     
  2. Theron

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    I have depression and anxiety (stemming from PTSD), as well as ADHD and OCD. It's important to find a good therapist, one who doesn't just prescribe pills, one who will also help you learn to cope with other methods. Meds don't teach you survival skills.
     
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    Your assumption at OCD and BDD are very similiar things is incorrect. I suggest you research these things. And my other advice is basically a re run of this^^
     
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    I would recommend you tell someone and get help, it will be scary telling someone and taking those steps, but you are strong enough to do it, I'm sure.

    I don't have a diagnosis as yet, but it's believed that I have OCD. They are also looking into the possibility of PTSD, though I disagree. (which is kinda ironic as pretty much everyone with ptsd say they don't have it but hey ho)

    You are not a loser. You are struggling, and that's okay. It doesn't feel okay at the moment, but it really is :slight_smile:
    Unfortunately a lot of LGBT people struggle with the anxiety and such by the idea of not being "normal" and the hate that is directed towards 'us' as a community. You are not alone, feel free to message me. Stay strong x
     
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    I would recommend you tell someone and get help, it will be scary telling someone and taking those steps, but you are strong enough to do it, I'm sure.

    I don't have a diagnosis as yet, but it's believed that I have OCD. They are also looking into the possibility of PTSD, though I disagree. (which is kinda ironic as pretty much everyone with ptsd say they don't have it but hey ho)

    You are not a loser. You are struggling, and that's okay. It doesn't feel okay at the moment, but it really is :slight_smile:
    Unfortunately a lot of LGBT people struggle with the anxiety and such by the idea of not being "normal" and the hate that is directed towards 'us' as a community. You are not alone, feel free to message me. Stay strong x
     
  6. Runner5

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    I found out I had OCD...gosh it was like five years ago, back in high school. Intrusive thoughts are the worse though; I really thought that I was losing my mind. Eventually I broke down and asked for help, which is honestly the best thing you can do. OCD is one of the most common mental struggles a person can have and you are definitely not alone.