Kind of a sexual topic, i know... But basically, when i got with my boyfriend and first gave oral, it was the first time i actually ever done it before. Before i had a terrible gag reflex, couldn't fit anything in my mouth further than an inch or two.... Then random after about 4 attempts, i magically became quite good at "deep throating" and i rarely gag. My boyfriend was shocked and confused and was worried that i was cheating on him because i learnt how to do it so quickly haha. But i reassured him that it was fine, i just somehow was able to do it now. But i just want to know if this happened to them at all? I've asked a few people and they said it took them ages to get to that stage and it was VERY slow process and sometimes they can't do it. Its a random occurrence for them. My boyfriend also finds it hard sometimes to do it but occasionally he can do it well. So yeah, is it easy for you?
lol I guess I would say I've never really had a bad gag reflex... :icon_redf So it's not that hard for me.
I learnt to control my gag reflex long before performing oral on anyone. I can stick my fingers down my throat without gagging.
He's that big u can't fit his member in ur mouth ? Haha that's funny lol my boyfriend was surprised I picked it up quickly too lol
i haven't tried with a guy, total virgin on that front, but i was thinking i'd "practice" so i could impress a guy all the heck.:lol: what do you all think. practice or "let him show me"?:icon_wink
I've never done it and probably never well. I find it better to give pleasure to the head. Practice on that and learn to make a guy cum with your tongue. :icon_wink
thanks for "tip":icon_wink i just figured i'd give him the full meal deal:icon_bigg and since i like it like that i figured he might too.
I still gag if I take too much but if I squeeze my thumb and relax it, I can take quite a bit in. Yeah, I find just varying technique while I do it's more effective anyway. Lick head and up and down shaft, take him in, move mouth down side, suck hard on head, etc.
I think it was probably a mental gag reflex for you. You got better at it when you got more comfortable with the idea.
One can even practice on a banana to get used to it. I've not given head as yet, but I heard that it's good to hyperventilate before taking your guy's member all the way to the back of the throat, so you can hold it there for longer without having to take a breath. Looking forward to trying it out, actually.
oh god when i first started out, it was horrible. i threw up one time when i attempted to deep throat this guy (in my defense, he was forcing it). i kinda got used to it when i kinda went on my "flimsy" phase a bit, so i guess some guys/girls/trans have it easier then others. for me it was a slow process, i think the idea of being comfortable with it makes it a lot more easier for me to do it then just doing it. there's a few techniques of strengthen your gag relflex, i even saw some sword swallow techniques on how they were able to down something so damn long (not recommended). so i still got it but not as bad as before.
