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Just a simple question about masturbating.

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by t o a s t, Jul 21, 2014.

  1. t o a s t

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    Well, tbh, I've been doing it since age 11 (so glad this site is basically keeping me almost 100% anonymous xD) but I'm not quite sure how to "come," to put it that way.
    Four years of it and I still can't figure it out. Of course I've achieved orgasms literally every single time, but I don't know if coming is supposed to happen to every female or if it's only for some... or whatever. Maybe I just don't have the ability to do it xD
    But yeah. I've had this question in my mind for a while and don't feel comfortable asking someone this irl.
    (Also stating a question for the side, I need to change my birth year on here because I typed "1989" and not "1999," somehow I didn't catch that mistake. Can anyone help me change that or is it permanent?)

    Sorry if the question is weird, I just really have no idea and don't want stuff appearing in my search history.
     
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    I dont really Get what you are asking? Any way you could try to formulate it in another way?
     
  3. t o a s t

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    Eh. I probably stated the question in an awkward way. Lemme rephrase it, then.
    I was asking if all females cum or if only a small percentage do.
     
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    I dont really know, i dont think everyone cums. Dont know Much about it, but if you dont i guess that is normal too.
    I'm not really helpfull lol
     
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    It's okay, I was just curious xD
    I'm just not super educated on things like this mainly because I don't have many people to talk with about this.
     
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    Are you asking if female genitalia spew fluids when they achieve orgasms? (terrible way of wording it. HA!) I have never talked to a girl that actually does, it seems like it might just be a porno thing- but again, I am not entirely sure. But, I know I don't. And I am just fine with that. I was under the impression that cumming and having an orgasm are one in the same as far as terms go- that's probably why notsoshure is confused!
     
  7. Fallingdown7

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    I think we all do, just....It's different. Most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation, very few orgasm from penetration. And ejaculation is extremely rare.
     
  8. t o a s t

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    I see. I never really achieved orgasms from penetration, anyway. It's very uncomfortable. But idk I just wasn't sure if it was common or not. Thanks, guys c:
     
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    I heard that some girls do, but I'm not sure about it. Don't worry so much about not cumming, most women can't do it. I never did in my entire life. (I never masturbated anyway.)
     
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    Squirting, I think is what you're asking about. It's more of a porn thing but it is physically possible for some female-bodied people. Some also get a surge of natural lubricant though it doesn't tend to shoot anywhere, lol. It just gets really thick. If neither happen to you, that's normal and nothing to be worried about.