I was wondering if anyone has ever done it before. I recently attempted and succeeded at it, and I was a bit surprised at how fun it was, in a way. Would anyone care to share stories or offer advice on it?
Just asking so I can offer advice. It's mostly flexibility. I don't do gymnastics, not really any training, sometimes all ya gotta do is practice and do it in the best way you think might work.
lol im double-jointed but not on my waist/back but i think i could do it as i can kinda bend my leg over my head
I've done it about a dozen times but it hasn't been satisfying - the orgasms I get from self-sucking are somehow stifled. I don't feel any release - they are anticlimactic, if anything. Furthermore, every muscle in my body hurts after I'm done (and while I'm at it, but in the heat of the moment, I don't really take heed), so until I become more flexible (which I have been working on, with progress), autofellatio isn't really worth it for me. However, I'm still worried about the nature of the orgasms. I created a thread about this, but no one has replied yet.
I'm glad I can't do it, for two reasons. Firstly, I don't like parting with my semen in any case, and it sounds like something that might tempt me to do so. Secondly, really the wonderful thing about sex is to share it with someone else, rather than just oneself, although I see absolutely nothing wrong or shameful about self-pleasuring, I mean I used to do it all the time, just that I'd rather give and receive this kind of pleasure with a partner. I'm pretty sure that the pleasure of doing it on oneself would pale in comparison to what it is like with a partner. (Having said all of that, trying to hold on to my semen using the Tantric techniques I've recently learned, while being orally pleasured by someone else, is something I've not as yet had the opportunity to attempt. I might fail miserably, depending on how aroused I am. I have no idea how all my learned self-control in sex will go, if I end up with a partner I'm absolutely besotted with. If they wanted me to let myself get blown to Kingdom come, I might even do so, just to please them.)
Well, Damien, I'd be careful about that. Sometimes those techniques can damage your body. And Fekete, I responded to your thread!
Hah, I wish I could. Haven't seriously tried it, or worked towards it though. Maybe I could. If I tried. And trained. Might be worth it.
Meh, depends, Raven. Like the other guy said, unless you're extremely flexible, you're gonna be strained even if you can do it. I get my enjoyment from being able to swallow, hah, which makes it worth it.
My flexibility is actually above average, so I'll really try to go down that path soon - Will get back to you with results if I manage it. Oh yes, swallowing. <3 I honestly don't get how people can not like it, but everyone is different!
They can only do harm if one has not been instructed properly. I appreciate your concern but really, these techniques have been used by Tantrics for thousands of years, and they still work today. One does not merely suppress ejaculation, if that was all one did, yes one would get blue balls etc. Not good. What one does, is that at the moment when orgasm is just beginning to expand, one attempts to draw that pleasure up into the body, up the spine and into the head, so that one's orgasm, while being quite mild in my experience, does actually get felt, but it moves upwards rather than being limited to the loins. I actually have come to prefer having lots of very mild orgasms, to just one biggie at the end. But as I said, folks can do as they please, the main reason I'm keeping on with this practice now, is because when I began circulating my sexual energy, first my hair stopped falling out, and now the hair I had lost is actually growing back again (the small 'balding' patch at the top of my head that was thinning, is itself shrinking; the lost hair is gradually coming back again). This is too amazing a gift for me to pass up, so I am happy to forsake the intensity of 'orgasm with ejaculation' for the much milder sensations I get, for now. Maybe when I've got all my hair back I will treat myself once in a while
Well, of course there's safe ways to do it. I was more referring to the risk that some methods, not saying yours is one of them, can cause damage to your internal "passages", because essentially those methods are not allowing fluids to pass through those areas, and can cause infections, permanent damage, and more over time. Not to say all methods are dangerous, just some. The key would be more akin to edging, preventing yourself from reaching the point where ejaculation occurs. But anyway, yeah, whatever works for you works! ---------- Post added 3rd Aug 2014 at 02:19 PM ---------- Well, David, I dunno, if you feel the need, haha, to continue the conversation about it and me knowing might assist in some way, go ahead!
