So, I've got myself a boyfriend, only my second ever and its going so much better! I feel so comfortable around him and I've realised I'm more of a bottom than I thought... We've tried with a condom and it wasnt working so we did without and pulled out before to be safe (which now from reading on here I realise may not be) Heres my question... If I was to find out with 100% certainty that he doesn't have HIV and nor do I then is there absolutely no chance of us getting the virus as a result of sex? The sex was so good! and I want him to finish inside me but no thats dangerous so I won't Thanks in advance, Wardrobe93
I'd only go as high as about 50% certainty. Unfortunately, according to most infidelity statistics - 40-60% of men have admitted to cheating on their partners. And that's based on straight marriages. I'm not sure about gay relationships, but I imagine they're up there. So no matter how much you trust someone, you can never know for sure. A lot of people take the risk and come out unscathed, but do you want to? Sorry for the bad news. Peace! (*hug*)
