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Having a tough time using a dildo

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by geoworld24, Oct 1, 2014.

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  1. geoworld24

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    I have just started using toys and am having an issue with dildos I try to put it in but it just naturally keeps coming out. Ive had better luck w/ a prostate massager. How do I get over this? Should I have started with something else?
     
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    Are you using lube?
    How thick is the toy?
    How far are you getting it in?
     
    #2 Ridiculous, Oct 1, 2014
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    Yes I'm using lube, its a 5in dildo. Not very far, like a couple of inches.
     
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    How thick is it?

    When you say it "naturally keeps coming out" do you mean it slips out when you let go, or is there some resistance and you can't push it in further than a couple of inches?
     
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    Most importantly does it have a flanged base so it can't get lost inside you.
     
    #5 SaleGayGuy, Oct 2, 2014
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    ^This.

    Dildos are not generally made to just "stay in there" as you go about your day.
    A buttplug -with a base- would be more appropriate for your needs, most likely.
     
    #6 Doudline, Oct 2, 2014
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