I am 17 years old and physically a male. Of course my body wants me to masturbate. Problem is, I psychologically hate it. It provides me a little bit of pleasure sure, but then long term it's like... "Oh yeah... I'm a boy..." And that feeling lasts a long time. So I haven't been doing it as often, but in turn my body keeps telling me to do it more often. Does anyone have any ways to cope with this? To masturbate but then not have the negative reaction or to decrease my body's need to masturbate? Thanks.
You might try a powerful vibrator... this might even be used with a partner. You might try without a vibrator closing your feet and laying you p. downwards, pleasing yourself in this position. All at your own risk, don't overextend yourself. This might allow for a bit more fantasy in the head... You might in general avoid watching stuff that really turns you on... porn etc...