What was your first thoughts about sex with the same sex

1st question: huh, I didn't know you could like guys.

2nd question: I knew nothing about it. I didn't know it was even possible until I hit puberty. Never had any inclination, thoughts or fantasies about guys before I was 16.

3rd question: Nope, ignorance and all that~

I'd say, being a loner my whole life has been riddled with advantages. Least of which is the lack of knowledge/propaganda of homosexuality.

 

What were your first thoughts on this?
Oh my god that's hot as fuck. Why is my heart pounding??! WHY IS MY OTHER THING POUNDING. DEAR LORD O-O *me was young as hell*

Did you believe any myths about gay/lesbian sex?
Never heard any.

Were you scared that the myths were going to come true?
Nope, because I never heard any o-o'

 

...I can get used to this :eusa_danc

 

First i felt very dirty...

Then i felt my heart race...

then about 30 mins later i felt on top of the world!

 

I also used to think all lesbians wore strap-ons because of heteronormativity. Now I think penetration is unnecessary, even between straight couples.

 

What were your first thoughts on this?
- If we're talking about porn then I was like oh that's kind of... Odd. But then I started watching more even though it was a bit awkward, and eventually I desensitized myself enough to be turn on by it because of the act. Had no relationship involved and that fact that 2 older guys having sex was taboo.

Did you believe any myths about gay/lesbian sex?
- That every gay couple would wanted to have gay sex. But then I realized that not all straight couples have sex either, so...

Were you scared that the myths were going to come true?
- Nope. Even if it did come true it's not something that would matter anyways.

 

first thoughts - that everyone felt this way, and that acting on it was weakness
myths - yeah, I believed all that crap about it being a lifestyle choice (well, lots of gay people do "choose" to live straight, but I honestly don't know of any straight people who choose a gay lifestyle)
scared? yeah, I was scared straight. it sucked (well, in fact that happened a lot too LOL)

 

I'm not entirely sure, just because I was very young. I had a crush on the best friend, and it was physical contact that felt good, I don't think thoughts ever went towards the whole 'anal sex' part, which would make sense, since anal sex became prevalent thanks to the porn industry.

So a lot of guys are kind of shocked to discover the whole anal sex part.

Anyway, big myths I believed were that homosexuality wasn't really real, that gays became straight when they had girlfriends (the whole 'everyone is bisexual' BS), things like that.

 

I thought sex for two women back then was just making out and feeling each other's boobs lol Although I remembered feeling dirty and scared for having such thoughts.

Anyways, I heard from other people that they finger or use strap ons when having sex. I did believe the myths and thought it was odd considering I didn't know lesbians would enjoy penetration. But I had no feelings toward it, I didn't care if it was even true. Just the thought of being inmate with another woman and being touchy is enough to satisfy me

 

Heck yah i would fuck a girl. girls are ho... WAIT SHIT AM I A LESBIAN

 

Honestly I was like "Damn that's hot"

 

I didn't have any major myths i think. But, when i found out lesbians liked strap ons i thought it was weird, because i hate penetration. That was around the time when i first started to truly believe i was gay. I asked myself if a lesbian can like penetration then..i'm not really gay...i could make it work with a man..i was just broken. Then after my second sexual experience with a man i was like....well maybe it isn't about penetration but who is doing the penetration. I hat being sexually touched by a man...and then being penetrated by a man was worse. But maybe i would like penetration by a woman.

I still don't think i would like a dildo, sticking with fingers and small vibrators.

So i guess my myth was: gay women didn't like penetration by something that was as thick and long as a penis.
And when i found out they could like penetration and i didn't, that maybe i was just broken.

Myth canceled: when i really thought to myself and was like maybe it isn't penetration, but who is doing the penetration.

Hope this made sense.

 

I didn't have any thoughts about it. My first exposure to gay sex was when a guy hit on me in the locker room in college. The next time I saw him I let it happen. But I didn't stop to think about it, really.

As I recall...something along the lines of "Well. That was interesting."

I wasn't aware of any.

Nope, since I didn't know of any of them. But even if I had, I don't generally bother to be afraid of ideas, particularly mythical ones.

Todd

 

At about eleven years old: What, girls can have sex with other girls? How does that work? *looks it up* Oh... That sounds cool... *five minutes later, is reading lesbian stories*

And um, yeah, after that I couldn't make myself look at guys in a sexual way. I just wanted to think about lesbian things 24/7. O.O I realized that I was attracted to girls early on, as that was impossible to deny, but I thought of myself as only bisexual after that because I was convinced that some part of me was attracted to guys... even though I knew I never wanted to be with one...

 

back when i thought i was gay i thought that men could only do oral and kissinf but then i got my first computer and looked up "how can gay men have sex?" and it was like BAM! i was hooked and couldnt stop learning about the lgbt comunity then i realizes i was a pan trans girl

 

I first watched gay porn after I started questioning whether or not I was gay.
It's weird how accepting I was. I think I kind of knew the answer already, and it was more or less how I expected it to be.
I do remember being glad that there were manly gay man. It sounds stupid now, but I was a bit confused with the whole 'gay men are feminine' or 'gay men want to be women' stereotype.
As important as the event was, looking back, I didn't make a big deal out of it.

 

one of the myths that I believed once upon a time was that in gay relationships, one guy was the "man" and the other was the "woman." Like, they were just paralleling a heterosexual relationship. and then that scared me, because it made me confused about which one I would be. but duh, I am a man, who likes men. If I wanted to be with a woman, then I wouldn't be gay. there are probably lots of other myths that fortunately have faded into the murky recesses of my memory.

 

I really didn't know how two guys had sex since I didn't even know any gay guys to begin with. So when I was 14 I did a Google search and it was almost a culture shock for me, thinking to myself "That's actually kinda hot!" After that I really didn't want anything to do with girls, especially after watching some "films" about the topic (the perv I am! :lol: ). Ironically, it took over a year for me to realize that I might be gay. And the rest is history...