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How did you first learn about anal sex

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Driftr, Nov 24, 2014.

  1. Driftr

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    I'm really curious about how others learned about the "back door"

    I learnt of the possibility through gay porn. It kinda threw me off a little and I wondered at the back of my mind whether the bottom was clean enough down there. But then later I learned that bottoms clean before having anal.
     
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    At the age of ~8, during christmas, my parents got quite drunk and exited the room, which allowed me to look through the channels and randomly stumble upon Cartoon Network, wanting to see some cartoons, but it was around 2AM in the morning and... Let's just say that, i didn't exactly find my cartoons.
     
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    I learnt from gay porn too.
    For at least a couple of years I actually really disliked watching that specific act on video and the thought of performing it myself kind of freaked me out.
     
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    I kinda guessed the butt was used for other things then the morning poo, And i saw porn...gay porn... loads of it
     
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    From those fundies who are a little too obsessed with gay people and anal... (Yeah I go on FSTDT)
     
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    It was after sex ed, probably when I was around 12 or so. I remember not understanding how gay guys could have sex. When I found out, I was pretty shocked -_-
     
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    As soon as I started secondary school... Kids there really know how to teach sex Education.
     
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    I have no idea how old I was when I heard about it, but sure a child... I remember just being surprised, not :eek: ...
     
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    I used to go roller skating at a local center after school in the late 70's and early 80's when skating and disco were really popular. I was on the speed skating team and could always be found at the rink, whether for practice or just hanging out. The first gay guy I ever met was at the rink, he worked there on and off. He would always chat to a friend and myself (my friend and I used to "experiment" with each other when we were really young). Not sure how the discussion came up, but he told us about anal sex. Rather than being grossed or surprised, I was actually really intrigued.
     
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    Straight porn - they do it to you know:wink:

    Don't remember how old I was.

    Todd