I never expect anyone to understand some of the things I am into. I sometimes feel like I have to apologize. For example: trying to explain the 'why'...well, I really don't know why. It's not that I don't accept it all - but I know I do worry a lot and beat myself up from time-to-time, rather than completely enjoy it (I am not harming anyone). I know I also shouldn't worry what others think. I'll probably always be into the things I like - diapers & pantypoop. I think wanting to experience those things and share them with another would be great, but of course I would never force it upon someone else. I just feel like I make things more complicated than they are. I'm kind of just getting my thoughts out, so I apologize, especially if the content is a bit of a trigger. I just want to be more open & honest, instead of keeping things a secret. Even being apart of communities directed towards certain kinks/fetishes, I still sometimes feel weird and alone. It's all a journey though.
EC is a place where you can share, regardless of what your into! More likely than not others probably have similar interests. Share away!
Dont feel bad about what you like. Ya it may not be what some people are in to BUT there is others out there that are into what you like. I use to feel weird about what i like now i just don't really give a fuck. And so you don't feel alone i'll say two of mine Kink: Bdsm Fetish: Tickle Torture
Thank you! I know there are others (I've watched plenty of videos/porn that involved what I like), but I guess I find myself often wondering what it would be like to experience such things in person with someone who likes it just as much as I do. I'm glad I can be open and not judged. I just go through these phases where I really like it and it's great, then I feel so weird and awkward and wrong. Not many people have directly sent me hate, but I've read some negative comments and I let them get to me more than I should. I need to stop caring and remember to just enjoy every moment! Thanks again
The trick i learned was to own what you like sexually. Meaning take it and say ya so what i fucking like this crazy shit and go wild :badgrin:
I love hands. I mean, I have a very peculiar attraction to a person's hands. It defines my sexual attraction to the person. Seriously. I have a fetish.... One that comes to mind. I will not disclose...
Thanks for feeling comfortable enough to share your fetishes with us, borntoroam! I don't even know if these count (LOL), but I get turned on be being spanked and *lightly* scratched. I'm not into the rough stuff, but when it's done playfully, it's super sexy. I don't know if this would be considered a fetish per se, but I am incredibly turned on by pregnancy.
I can relate to some of this. Although I haven't tried any of these things yet, so I don't know for sure, I think that I would end up being into 1. Bondage - I like the idea of being restrained, unable to escape, 2. Submissiveness - I want to be taken over and dominated by my lover, and 3. Exhibitionism - I like the idea of people watching while I have sex. All of these things require of course, even more consent negotiation than usual, but I'm sure I can manage to be a cool cat. ~ Adrienne
It took me forever to admit to myself that I'm a switch rather than exclusively dominant, because I have a huge amount of body shame and I felt like anybody who was to domme me would be wasting their time on me and would rather be with anyone else. Funnily enough, I never had any shame about being kinky in the first place. It's weird how the mind works.
So long as you aren't hurting anybody (without their consent, at least), then do what you will. Some will like it, and some won't. Some might find they like it, and some will be reminded of why they don't. Personally, I'm fairly vanilla in this department, but for a few reasons. When it comes to BDSM, or any kind of master-slave scenario, I'll just copy & paste, what I said elsewhere: The only things that I know, for sure, appeal to me are... thick glasses. I'm intrigued and excited by displays of intelligence which, for me, includes glasses. I know, it's weird, but roll with it. All that said, if with the right partner, I'd be willing to try things out, for their and our sake. I suppose, this too, could be considered a kind of kink as well... I want to totally please my partner. I'm talking, they lay back and let me do, all the work. All they need to do is three things: - Moan. - Tell me where to go, and what to do. - Orgasm. I'll handle the rest.
