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Eating out causes tongue hurting

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Izobella, Dec 6, 2014.

  1. Izobella

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    I know this sounds pretty stupid, but I was wondering if there are any tips for how to avoid this or help this not last as long. It seems that anytime I eat my girlfriend out, my tongue will hurt for days after.
     
  2. Chip

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    It's because you're using muscles in your tongue that aren't used to being heavily used. It's really not much different from going to the gym and building up muscle from doing a strenuous workout. It hurts for a day or three afterward, because the muscle is building.

    It will go away in time, as your tongue muscles get stronger... and your girlfriend will thank you :slight_smile: You can also, uh, work your tongue out by yourself, when she isn't around, to help build up the muscles faster.
     
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    Now there's one more thing to consider - You might be grating your genio-glossus (and part of your long inf.) on your teeth while you're giving her oral. I'm talking about the thin muscle on the bottom side of your tongue.

    I know I have that issue - Stick my tongue out too far, do all the motions you do when giving a women oral, and I end up grating that part of my tongue on my teeth, which ends up in it getting very, very sore. Sometimes it takes a few days to get back to normal.

    What I would suggest is trying to find the most comfortable position for you to give oral in, a position where there is no risk of you grating your finer muscles on your teeth.

    This may sound silly, but I know it's quite real by personal experience!

    Other than that, Chip's advice is spot on if it's just about muscle training.