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Sore after sex

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by derek994, Dec 9, 2014.

  1. derek994

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    Just wondering if it's normal to be sore after sex, what are y'all's experiences?

    Note: it was sex with a woman, but I'm curious about any orientation.
     
  2. Benway

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    I sure as hell was sore after my first experience (it was with a girl, I'm a guy), but there were other factors involved besides the sex, like the psychological torment I went through to try and get out of it and the walk of shame and the subsequent booty call from her the next day which led to more exasperation and guilt. But yeah, I'd say being sore is normal, for me it was probably because I couldn't come with a girl, I don't know. But it's probably fine.
     
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    Yes, it is normal to be sore after sex. Heck, I'm sore after masturbation sometimes. It's a lot of friction and physical exertion, it's normal for soreness to occur.
     
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    Benway: were you only sore after your first time? This wasn't my first, but it was the first time that I had to do pretty much all the work.

    ---------- Post added 9th Dec 2014 at 05:46 PM ----------

    Sore after masturbating? Ha I've never had that happen, but I've definitely had times where my hand or legs start cramping..it's awful haha
     
  5. Benway

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    First and second time, haven't done it since then, over a year ago. This girl was insane, clingy and pushy. She decided she was going to take my virginity the night before and I kept texting her all night telling her I didn't want to go through with it, but she "drank herself to sleep" that night and at around 9AM she more or less threatened to hurt herself if I didn't show up and I felt so bad that I embarked on an odyssey which led to the forty eight hours of events I specified in my previous post.

    And sore after masturbation? You better believe it.
     
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    That's crazy!

    And I've actually never been sore after masturbation, even after days where I've done it like 7 times in one day. Excessive, I know.
     
  7. Benway

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    It's a story for another day.

    And I masturbate about seven times a day regularly-- my libido is unusually high.
     
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    Regularly? Dayum, props. My average is probably 2 or 3, one of which is usually just to help take a nap.
    So if seven is what you regularly do, what's the most you've done in a day?
     
  9. Benway

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    Something around twenty two to twenty five, I'm not sure. And that got me sore.
     
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    Wow, and do you ejaculate every time?

    Sorry if that's too nosy of me
     
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    Well, the last time I did it to that number I was 17 or 18 and yeah, I did.
     
  12. derek994

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    Oh okay, so not recent. But yeah, I think if I were to go past 10 times, I wouldn't ejaculate anymore. The first three are pretty big loads though. Idk why I'm sharing this, my bad
     
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    Hey, this is educational. I never considered the fact that a guy could be sore after sex too.
     
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    Ha! Glad to teach you? Yeah, I'm definitely sore, but idk which body parts women have to deal with soreness