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How many orgasms do you have a week, on average?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by HuskyPup, Jan 11, 2015.

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How many orgasms do you have a week, on average?

  1. Zero. I do not have orgasms.

    2 vote(s)
    2.4%
  2. Less than 1 per week.

    3 vote(s)
    3.7%
  3. 1-2/week

    6 vote(s)
    7.3%
  4. 3-4/week

    18 vote(s)
    22.0%
  5. 5-6/week

    13 vote(s)
    15.9%
  6. 7-8/week

    8 vote(s)
    9.8%
  7. 9-11/week

    11 vote(s)
    13.4%
  8. 12-15/week

    6 vote(s)
    7.3%
  9. 15-20/week

    4 vote(s)
    4.9%
  10. 20-30/week

    4 vote(s)
    4.9%
  11. I lost count!

    7 vote(s)
    8.5%
  1. HuskyPup

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    OK, I was pondering this the other day, and between sex and ones I create by myself, I'd say I have an average of two per day, or about 14 per week. I almost always have one when I wake up in the morning, because it helps me wake up, and get motivated to get out of bed. Then, I like to have another before I go to bed, to relax. For me, this seems just about right. Someday, I may have fewer, others, maybe one or two more, but it seems to stay pretty regular, and has for quite a few years. The morning one tends to be a 'quickie'; at night, well, that can take a while...

    How about everyone else?

    What would you say your average is, and do you find it enough, healthy, fulfilling, or anything else?
     
  2. Fallingdown7

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    1 or 2.

    My sex drive isn't very high, I have no partner, my only partner is my hand. And my hand isn't always up for it anymore :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    9-11

    When in holidays or just if i have a lot of free time, this number sky rockets, haha
     
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    I'd say 3-4, the numbers are very much dependant on my mood and state of mind. If I'm stressful I can't get myself to do it, and also I have relatively few occasions to do it without fear of getting interrupted/caught. It would be more if it weren't for my mental blocks, and not to mention that sometimes I use it as a reward system for having achieved something great that day (but not always)
    In a relationship it would be a lot more probably, I suspect that I'm sub-consciously suppressing the urge because of the lack of sex.
     
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    Depends what time of the year it is really. Right now I'm on break and living a semi-sedentary life so 3-4 times a day is the average for me.
     
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    Are we talkin about cumming with a partner,? Or jackin off? That's gona make a difference.
     
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    All depends on my homework plan for that night. If I am going to pull an all night-er, and/or work late for a few nights, then I will have fewer than 3-4. I am far more prone to distraction if I have an orgasm during that night.
    #SWAG
     
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    Both, combined.
     
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    Lol that motivates you? As soon as I jerk it I have absoleutly no drive to do anything. I have to avoid it during the week as much as I can because I need to do stuff, and I already have a really hard time being motivated so I don't need any help.
     
  10. Oddish

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    It depends, I guess. Usually 1/day, at night, before I go to sleep. Depending on how my partner feels, that can be bumped up to 2 or 3 a day. I'd average it around 9-11 a week.
     
  11. HuskyPup

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    Yep, definitely. I find when I'm having really amazing sex and my sexual energy is flowing, that I'm more energetic, more creative and much happier I tend to have had my most productive phases of writing/creativity at times that have coincided with being able to be sexually expressive. I find that if I don't have a release for my sexual desires, I tend to get grouchy, achy, up-tight, depressed, and unmotivated.

    So for me, it's very healthy to have at least an orgasm per day, better than vitamins!
     
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    I don't keep track and its different every day.
     
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    Some weeks it's more than I can count, other weeks it's just a few. On average, if we don't have sex, I'll masturbate once, maybe twice, at most three times a day. An orgasm (or more!) a day keeps both you and the partner happy, and it brings you closer. They don't call it making love for nothing!

    That said, I've kind of wondered how often married couples usually have sex. Obviously it varies from couple to couple, and it's something people don't like to talk about, but I do kind of wonder about that.
     
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    I have to say Fallingdown7 I am sorry that your hand is not up to it that much :frowning2: . I have a really really high sex drive I can "finish" and keep going slowly for 30 seconds or so as long as I keep going I never go limp and I an horned up and ready to go again I can do that 3 sometimes 4 times before I have to stop for a half hour or so :slight_smile: I feel like I am a freak of nature being able to do that .
     
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    I lost count. And that's on weeks where I -don't- have anyone coming over.

    And I love it. Every single time.
    It's like air, I need it to live, lol.
     
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    Same here. It's not uncommon for me to sometimes go a week or two without any masturbation. Now if I had a partner this number would probably be higher.
     
  17. Fallingdown7

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    It's okay. I used to be like you until I put more estrogen in my body and now It's like 'eeeehhh'
     
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    Probably 2, maybe 3 at a push. Since I'm too young to have sex and I can't be bothered to masturbate sometimes I don't orgasm that much :/
     
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    I'm not in a relationship so all my orgasms are self achieved. I try to limit myself to three times a week - that being said, when I go at it I usually give myself up to 20. Im a bit of a freak like that I think but I guess I just have a really high sex drive. The wonders of multiple orgasms - I don't think I would handle being a guy :wink:
     
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    Around 20 on average. It all depends on the week. Mostly. But then there are weeks when I am out of a job... (it's happened a couple times) and that count skyrockets. Then again, I haven't been with a partner in since last spring which also raised the number almost double.