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Where do you look first...

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by kakich, Jan 14, 2015.

  1. kakich

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    (lesbians) ...when you see a man in underwear?
    (gays) ...when you see a woman in underwear?

    Is it only me, or when you look at someone in underwear, you first notice the genitals? Because I don't find male genitals interesting or a turn on, but every time I see a picture of/ a man in underwear, my eyes first go there... :eusa_eh:

    How is it with you?
     
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    If I see some random person in their underwear im usually like thinking what the hell put some pants on
     
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    Ummm, yeah, I look there too, but sometimes I look at a guys chest. Umm, with girls it's chest first for some reason.
     
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    If it's a girl, it's her face. With a guy; their arms. :icon_redf......Hard to tell. It changes.
     
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    Girls: Their clothes like the bra or the panties. Then im like thats cute

    Boys: Their tummy and maybe some sick abs i'd tongue wash
     
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    With women it's usually their tummy. or their upper back.

    With men, it's usually their butt. :bang: Why? Why do I do that?

    With women I see a piece of beautiful art. With men, certain men that it, I see naughty things happening. Sorry, it's embarrassing.
     
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    Depends where I'm seeing this, and how far away I am.

    If I'm far away, I see the outline, go to the face, scan from the face down, and back up. This goes for both genders.

    If I'm closer, like flipping through a magazine, for women it's usually the hips or face. With men, the chest or stomach.
     
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    Maybe I wrote it wrong - not definitely first, but I always notice the genitals in men, I don't even know why....
     
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    Yeah, that's pretty normal I think. My eyes take in the whole picture, but then again I don't sexualize the male body.
     
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    Face first. If I don't find him handsome then it really doesn't matter if he has a good body and so on. Face is everything. (Well, I would want a good body as a bonus if it's possible as well)
     
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    For guys it's the chest first. Not sure why. Then the face down.

    For girls....let me check. Hips and stomach. Then boobies.
     
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    With girls it's the stomach first then thighs. I'm kinda not into the sexual parts as much. With guys it's the genitalia first just cuz I'm curious. Then the face because that's the only part of a guys body I'm likely to find attractive.
     
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    For both genders it's face.

    But after that, with girls I just keep looking at their faces. With guys...my eyes tend to wander.
     
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    For both guys and girls, I see chest first. My vision slides lewdly downwards from there.
     
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    I gotta agree with you there. With women, it's usually their face and chest area. With guys I pretty much start at the face and work my way down.
     
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    With women: boobs. And I have a hard time looking away. You think being a woman I'd have gotten over the boob thing. XD

    men: also chest area actually. Not sure why..
     
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    When my eyes wander, and naughty thoughts happen. I tend to turn around and walk away slowly. I can't even go to the public pool and training center anymore because of my little problem. Curse you, Men's Locker Room!!! Curse you!!! Too much eye candy. Especially in the showers.
     
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    With guys it's the face and the overall picture creating a first impression. I don't focus on any particular body parts.
    With women it's their butt and legs. I always notice women in long slim jeans that reveal the shape of their butt. Nice to look at but I'm not in the least bit sexually attracted to them. I hardly ever look at their breasts but don't like large ones.
     
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    Face, especially their eyes, for both genders first.
    After that, with women: thighs and stomach.
    Men: Chest and posterior.

    If the person is naked however, I will instinctively check out a guy's equipment, probably due to some primeval need to measure and compare. Which in my case is usually pointless, beeing not that large and all.
    With naked women my eyes aren't imediatly drawn to their genitals.
     
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    I look at the chest for both.
    Not attracted to breasts at all, but my eyes still go there, they're something to loot at I guess?