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Doing it or receiving it

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by kakich, Jan 17, 2015.

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  1. kakich

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    I so love giving oral/making sex to my girlfriend, that I sometimes feel I even enjoy it more than when she does it to me (don't get me wrong- the way she does it...wow). I could even get an orgasm, thinking about how she is enjoyng it.
    How is it with you? Which one do you preffer?
     
    #1 kakich, Jan 17, 2015
  2. soulcatcher

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    Both, simultaneously.
     
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  3. Fallingdown7

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    Never done either yet, but I think I would enjoy giving more. I'm more of a giver.
     
    #3 Fallingdown7, Jan 17, 2015
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    I've never done it yet , I've only slept with men ,but if I did I think I would enjoy both giving and receiving .
     
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    Haven't done it yet but my girlfriend says she only orgasms when giving.
     
    #5 NatWheeled, Jan 17, 2015
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    The giver in oral and intercourse. But receiving... is alright. In intercourse, I uh... well... lets just say my backside slams shut.
     
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    I've never done either but I'm suspicious I might end up a pillow princess. Unless we're using toys, then I would totally top.
     
    #7 ANewDawn, Jan 17, 2015
  8. Oddish

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    I prefer giving oral sex, because I really like knowing I'm pleasing my girlfriend and that in itself turns me on more than anything. Blowjobs are nice, I won't deny that, but I'm definitely more of a giver than a receiver.
     
    #8 Oddish, Jan 17, 2015
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    I like when me and my BF both give to each other. Reciprocity is very important to me. More than anything, it excites as hell knowing that I'll receive in return of giving, or that I'll give after receiving.

    I like things to roughly be 50/50, although I never keep count of the number of times I gave or received.
     
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    I prefer to give, but I occasionally like to receive too.
     
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    Both.
     
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    Giving oral to a girl is so hot. I'd say it makes up 2/3 of my fantasies with the other third receiving.
     
    #12 gogreen, Jan 17, 2015
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    I've only received once and given once. I think that it was more enjoyable to receive, but I like giving pleasure to my significant other.
     
    #13 Mrcake, Jan 19, 2015
  14. Wildside

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    I absolutely prefer GIVING oral to receiving. I have actually orgasmed just from giving, without even touching myself. I guess it's true what they say about the real sexual organ being the brain.
     
    #14 Wildside, Jan 20, 2015
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    Neither. But if I had to choose I would be the ''giver''. I feel uncomfortable with my penis being in someone's mouth.
     
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    I enjoy both, but I have to admit, I love giving blowjobs.
     
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    I prefer to give.
     
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  18. Rawrzilla

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    I prefer to receive. That said, I have a strict personal policy that I will never expect something out of someone on the bed unless I'm willing to do the same (with one exception), so I'll always reciprocate unless the other person declines.

    On the other hand (end*), if we are talking about rimming I prefer to give :grin:
     
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    same. its weird receiving anallingus. but giving, my pleasure! (I wish there was a spell check)
     
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    Never had sex, first of all.

    However, my goal has been, for quite some time, to make sure my partner gets off twice, before we even think about me. I want to take care of them.

    In terms of giving or receiving, in general, that kind of depends. On who I'm with, and the situation. But I suspect we'd be able to discuss that, and go from there.
     
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