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Guys: do you still get erections from mild contact?

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  1. Jax12

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    Any guys out there still get a little hard down there just from physical contact with a person you like, such as brushing your hand against theirs? Or even holding hands?

    I find it a little embarrassing when I get hard down there just from a thought or slight contact. Any advice? Or do I just have to live with it.
     
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    I get hard just Looking sometimes.
    I thought it was normal, I just live with it and Hide it if i have to.
     
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    I'm in my forties now, so the days of spontaneous boners from casual thoughts or brief contact are pretty much done. (Unless it's been a REALLY long time since my last orgasm.) Honestly, I'm kind of happy about that - it's nice to be back in control of that part of the body. :slight_smile:

    How did I deal with it back in the day? Wearing jeans and briefs meant they tended not to show that much, so I just enjoyed the semi-horny feeling until it went away. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    No, not any more. Last time was about a year ago, when I was standing close to man in shopping mall. Luckily I was wearing a coat. Nowadays I just feel that little glow inside my chest and crotch without erection. Thank you for that, so there seems to be also good points in getting old.

    You just have to get use to that, so remember to wear heavy clothes especially if you´re hung. It´s only normal.
     
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    Alright then, sounds good. Thanks guys.
     
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    Ack, I'll be the odd one out. Yes, it can still happen, just not as often. Just thinking about the right guy will do it. Or seeing go across the room.
     
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    Yes. My leg brushed up against a guys leg and I got hard.
     
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    Dude, your 14, of course that still happens. I bet you could brush up against a chair and get stiff... If my memory serves me correctly... :grin: :grin:

    It can certainly be embarrassing, but it's nothing to be concerned or worried about.
     
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    Not so much. Unless there was some form of sexual contact, i don't get hard easily. I just need an imagination. But simply sitting next to someone I like wont do it. Which is great, because it saves me from public awkwardness and embarrassment.
     
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    It's funny you should ask... :grin:

    Yeah, I've noticed this a little bit with a guy I met recently. It can get up seemingly much easier than normal when around him, even though I'm honestly not thinking about anything sexual. There's some mutual chemistry there for sure.
     
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    Yeah exactly. I'll just be minding my own business and once a girl touches me it'll just pop up. Quite embarrassing lol.
     
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    For me totally... holding hands... thinking about a guy... looking at a guy??? Maybe because its all so new and exciting for me? sometimes its a little much and I wish I could control it more... other times Im glad!!!
     
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    Contact? no. Thinking? oh yes.
     
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    Contact, thinking of him, or talking on the phone with him...
     
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    Unfortunately, yes. Can be umm... awkward to deal with. He's never noticed thank god, but 'suppressing' it can be an issue.
     
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    Ya, I do sadly. Haha. If I am with someone who likes me back I've stopped trying to hide it. We usually have a good laugh.
     
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    I get erections from hearing the word erection
     
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    OMG I am a crossfitter. I have to make myself ignore and look away in the gym. Its easy though when your concentrating on the workout. Yeah it def happens with touchy feely people.
     
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    In public not so much although it does happen, in private with my boyfriend most of the time when we are very close I've got an erection. I don't hide it however, why would I? It shows I'm attracted to him, comfortable around him, not to mention the fact it's natural and normal.
     
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    Unfortunately no, I am starting to have problems down there
     
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