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How old were you when you had your first orgasm?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Cerith23, Jan 28, 2015.

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How old were you when you had your first orgasm?

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  1. Cerith23

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    I'm nineteen, a cisgendered female, and a virgin. I've also never orgasmed, although I can get sexually aroused. How old were you when you first orgasmed, and were you a virgin when you did? Ladies, this question is for you, as as far as I can tell theres a big difference beween guys and girls.
     
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    I was, like, 11. I was definitely a virgin. I am not 100% female though so I don't know if this question was really geared to me. But yeah.
     
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    Cool, cheers for answering x
     
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    Looks like the poll should have been skewed a bit younger hehe. I think it was 11 or 12 for me.

    It wasn't exactly pleasant; I thought I had broken something with the pain and pulsing. But I turned out okay and decided to try it again soon after. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    EDIT: Understood the OP now just meant girls. So disregard I guess. :S
     
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    Yeah I realized that it was exclusively for females, after I voted haha.

    My first time was when I was 11-12, so quite young. Of course, I never knew what is was called back then, but hey it felt good so who cares.
     
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    :eek: Rediculously young! I thought I was bleeding because I thought I did it too much. Then I realized it wan't blood. I was young and didn't know what anything of this nature was at the time. All I knew was that it felt good.
     
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    I didn't know what I was doing and I didn't use any lubrication. I got some nasty skin burns that got all scabby and hurt like hell. I actually have permanent scarring from it believe it or not. My skin didn't grow back right.
     
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    Sorry that I answered before I knew it was ladies only.

    I *think* it was just after my 13th birthday. I certainly wasn't 14, could have been 12 though. Anyways, I was getting up off my tall trundle bed and brushed against the covers of my bed while crawling to the ladder. I had a dry orgasm. Later that night, I was determined to hump the bed until ejaculation. I did this until I was 15 because I could not reach orgasm with my hand. Around 16, I became a "high five" guy exclusively. lol
     
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    Lady here! I was 19. I wasn't a virgin but I had just started having sex a few months before.
     
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    (i know this is for the ladies) i think i was 13-14. i was watching porn (knew what it was since i was, like, 4. even masturbation, fingering, lube, etc. etc. etc.) and i climaxed and it felt good. good thing i was quiet. my first loud orgasm was when i was home alone.
     
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    I had to have been like 6. Ridiculously young, in retrospect.
     
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    I began having sex at 15 but never had an orgasm until I was 17. Took a while to learn what I liked and all of a sudden it was like I was introduced to crack cocaine. lol. I was addicted after that. Not in a bad way though.
     
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    I thiiink I was maybe 17. I've never had sex with anyone, but I can orgasm every time through masturbation without fail. Fairly easy.
     
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    About 13 or 14. I didn't even know what masturbation was. But I used to fiddle with myself and used to think I was the only one to engage in what I thought at the time was a really perverted activity. At about that age I had time to really play (I shared a room so rarely had time alone to play) and tried to simulate sex by masturbating (even though I didn't know it was masturbating) and I got a bit of a shock when I had my first orgasm, as I didn't know what that was either.
     
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    I have never orgasmed but I was ridiculously young when I started masturbating. I have done it for as long as I remember.
    I remember once when I was in year 1 (so aged four or five or something) my mum walked in on me and asked what I was doing and I honestly couldn't answer since I really had no idea what I was doing.
     
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    I was probably about 15 years old. I was still a virgin.
     
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    I was seventeen and never had sex. As silly as it may sound, I was afraid of having an orgasm. I didn't know how it would feel and how I would react, you know, if I would make any loud noises or funny faces etc. I tried it in the bathroom one day that I was horny and decided to face my fear.:grin:
     
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    I was probably 7, honestly. It was the sort of thing I discovered accidentally and obviously didn't think of it as dirty or sexual, I didn't know what sexual meant. It just happened and felt good lol. (Virgin of course)
     
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    I think 11 is a feasible answer. I remember I was in 5th grade when I first masturbated, without knowing exactly what masturbation was.
     
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    I was eleven and having orgasms before I even knew what they were called.