Over the past couple of years when having anal sex Ive run into a few problems. When Im on the receiving end I tend to be too tight. And I "squeeze" the guy out without meaning to. I know how to loosen myself up but it doesnt seem to help with the "squeezing out" part. And it ruins the mood having to repeatedly reinsert. The other problem is more of a question. Can TOO much lube be a problem when it comes to insertion? I find it difficult to actually insert when Ive used alot. And Ive been with a couple of guys who had trouble inserting into me because of this. It takes forever. You keep slipping and sliding around. Anyone have any ideas on this?