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Shy Bladder...

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by GayNurse95, Mar 30, 2015.

  1. GayNurse95

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    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
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    Out to everyone
    yo.
    Im a trans man who has a bit of plumbing issues….
    I have a STP that has a medicine spoon to carry the pee into a special packer (with tubing) to carry it out if the body.
    While I am trying to get the position right, theres just one problem….
    I can't pee!
    I want to go, and need to go. Right when Im about to let loose, I lock up. So, I stand there for 20 mins at home at the toilet hoping to pee but nothing happens. I tried at a urinal in a single bathroom (one door, one toilet) and no luck.
    I do have anxiety, and I just can't go. My urethra locks up in different areas, and I can't get the flow started. What do I do? How do I get over this??? Why do I lock up and how to I stop it from doing that?
    I don't want to sit anymore… I want to stand and use the urinal like a normal man…
    Flowing water and counting tiles haven't worked. Please help….
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