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Does bottoming make you more loose

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  1. Driftr

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    I read somewhere online on a pop forum that attracts a lot of gays that someone knows someone who has loose number 2's because of bottoming.

    I just thought I'd ask if it's true. Is that what is supposed to happen after years of bottoming or did that person (if that person is telling the truth) do something wrong? Or by loose, did he mean that it got a bit loose but not too much to require diapers?

    I was also wondering if there is a mature, maybe around 40+ bottom who has bottomed a lot for years but still has everything working fine. I would just like to hear what you think about what that person said.
     
    #1 Driftr, Mar 30, 2015
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    Sounds like complete nonsense.
     
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    Yup
     
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    I've always heard stories but I'm not entirely sure.
     
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    I don't think it's true. From what I hear it usually goes back to normal shape after a while like elastic.
     
    #5 EpicConfusion, Mar 31, 2015
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    Complete and utter bullshit.
     
    #6 Chip, Mar 31, 2015
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    Chip is right.

    That area of the body is elastic enough to go back to its original shape easily. Don't worry about it.
     
    #7 Chiroptera, Mar 31, 2015
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    A lot of people also make this mistake about women; that they can't be tight anymore after sex, which is wrong on both accounts.

    Body parts are elastic and snap back.
     
    #8 Fallingdown7, Mar 31, 2015
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    40+? I'm 70 and if bottoming made you loose I'd have been noted in medical books decades ago. Go for it!! Not to worry!! :thumbsup:
     
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    Well, I guess if you're really into something like fisting then sure, but from regular sex no.
     
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    True story.
     
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    :lol: Thanks for that. So it isn't just a constant stream, similar to a brown waterfall, then.
     
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    While I don't have this degree of experience, I was in a three year relationship with an exclusive top and at times we were going at it on a virtually daily basis. No problems at all.

    The thing is...when you're bottoming you're often going to be squeezing the relevant muscles to (ahem) grip the top (because in my experience, tops often like this lots). So really you're essentially working out. So things are probably going to get stronger and more toned more than anything else.

    Todd
     
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    WOW! A daily bottoming! You're a lucky man and you're 100% right about the squeezing. It's arousing just thinking about it.
     
    #14 tulman, Apr 1, 2015
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    No, sweetie
     
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    In the words of someone who enjoys bottoming and the usage of butt plugs and dildos, no. It actually strengthens the first sphincter muscle and can be used to hyphen the sensation of having a phallus inside of your anus and rectum.
     
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    Anything that heightens the sensation has to be good!:eusa_danc
     
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    Except...
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    I've looked into this in current literature and I don't think anal sex makes you lose control of your bowel in the long run although they found that those bottoms have lower resting anal pressure.
     
    #19 josepha, Apr 28, 2015
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    I would like to make one small critique here.

    Anal intercourse does not generally have a negative impact on elasticity, but that does not mean that all forms of penetration do not. As with all muscular regions, it possible to rectum to degrees that will negatively effect elasticity. Especially when it comes to toys, there are risks that come with deviating too far from the norm in terms of size (Norm meaning what is naturally attainable; not the average penis size). It is best to stick to reasonable sizes rather than consistently going bigger and bigger. Essentially, you have to go out of your way to damage the elasticity of the rectum, but it certainly isn't impossible. Simply because the muscles are being stimulated doesn't mean that they are getting stronger.
     
    #20 Gen, Apr 28, 2015
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