Hey So I added a 28 yr old Australian on Skype last year and since January we've been talking pretty much everyday. I stopped using Skype and so he asked for my whats app. From then he would message me in the morning and night and then a bit less as he was getting ready to fly over. He had actually booked a holiday in London not too far from where i live. We met up (30/3/15), the day after my 21st birthday and done the deed- it was the first time I had ever gone all the way. The sex was great and we both seemed to be having fun. I had a shower and then got dressed since my clothes were right there. I didnt know whether to stay or not so i asked him "do you want me to let u sleep or do you wanna chit chat?" and he said he will probably fall asleep because he's exhausted.We kissed a few times then i left. He messaged me the next day (31/3/15) asking if i was feeling good. After that we haven't really talked much. i don't want to keep messaging him and seem needy. I understand he's probably busy enjoying his holiday but id like to see him again while he's on holiday. Do you think he has finished with me? Did i do the right thing by getting dressed straight away- What are the rules to hook ups? Sorry for the essay lol Im just new to this
Used to happen to me all the time. I'm told that guys like that just use you for sex and then move onto another guy -- it's supposedly nothin wrong with you. However, I do wonder if maybe if there is something wrong with me .
