So, recently my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. Now, I'm a vers and he's a top, so naturally I bottomed. And I definitely didn't mind it. We took our time, there was lots of lube, etc. In fact I did enjoy it, but not perhaps love it... if that makes sense. Anyway so yeah, any ways to make it more fun I guess? :icon_wink:icon_bigg
Bottoming is a unique sensation and something that takes a little adjusting to -- the more you do it the more you'll find pleasure. Also, your mentality will help you enjoy it more. Thinking about the pleasure being given to the other person helps, I know I use this. Do you have any porn scenes/actors that call to mind when you think about good bottoming? Perhaps you can explore more deeply (pun not intended) what makes those good for you.
I'm accepting my desire to be with a man a lot more. I actually want to be the bottom with a guy. Something about being the object of desire. You have that power, it's sensual and controlling actually. Maybe you don't like the physical feeling.
If that was your first time, then I would not second guess it. As the other post said, it takes time and practice.
Experiment with lots of different positions and if you are comfortable and have used plenty of lube invite your boyfriend to go a little bit harder/deeper. Communicate with each other so you both get the best out of sex. He will enjoy it more if he knows you are enjoying it too.
